NO SYMPATHY FOR TEEN MOTHERS

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Teenage pregnancy is an issue that has become the norm in society. I have no sympathy for 13,14,15,16 year old dumbasses who get pregnant. I'm tired of seeing stories of how hard it is to be a teen mom in SEVENTEEN & TEEN PEOPLE magazine. Your stupid asses should have kept your legs closed. Teens are so preoccupied with sex, when really, it is so overrated. I have a friend who got pregnant after being with a guy for six months, then she found out he got another pregnant at the same time. What a dumbass! She's my friend and I think she deserves everything she gets. I have another friend, who since the age of 14 has has sex with over 30 people. Everyone thinks she's a ho, but she absolutely the Queen of Denial. She's my friend, but she's a whore. My sister got pregnant at 14 but got an abortion and then got pregnant again at 15, but kept the baby. She got pregnant at 21 and wanted to get another abortion, but the baby father's told her no. I love my sister, but she used to be a whore (and she'll probably go to hell). However, I do not blame teens who are sexually molested or raped because those are circumstances beyond thier control. Why do I feel this way? Becuase I'm sick and tired of teens wanting to be grown and do adult things, but when the consequences come to bite them in the ass, they are too young to deal with the adult responsibility. You have your whole life to have sex and have kids. So to you promiscuous broads, why don't you take all that time having sex and being sluts and go finish your education and get a college degree.

It's good to have high standards for yourself. But putting other people down because they don't live up to your high standards isn't an attitude I personally find appealing. None of us are as good as we should be.

I dont think its your place to judge... especcially throwing around words like hell... Let he who is without sin throw the first stone...

I'm sure your so perfect.... What a lame post

Despite the insensitive manor that this post came about it does bring up a big issue, not only of teen pregnacy but how we as a society should respond to it. Should we really pamper these teen parents and try and give them extra support just because they are a teen and what should be done about the problem. You must think that the first thing to consider is the child, the child didn't chose to come into the world as a result or 2 stupid teenagers so we must help out in ways for the child to benefit. As for the parents of the child depending the circumstances what should happen especially if u are close friends with the person. Did they have any thought to use a condom or birth control at all? Do they ask there friends to babysit so they can go get drunk and have sex with various amounts of other people or was the baby created as a result of a long lasting relationship that was taken the the next level with all the proper precautions and yet pregnacy still occured and the parents couldn't bare to see the child get aborted or go up for adoption and they are taking full responsibility for there actions. In that case although its still a stupid thing to happen and is a life changing thing everything must be taken into consideration before basically calling them all stupid whores. Shit Happens but some shit is preventable.

Were better off treating them well, and helping them out. If we don't.. All were hurting is the kid. Make him a fuck up for life.. Thats just stupid. Mistakes happen.. It wasn't the baby's fault, I dont think the mother planned it exactly either. It happens. I mean no matter how much they tell us to use condoms.. birth control.. not to do it at all.. Were going to. Sometimes its just the heat of the moment and it happens. All I'm saying you tell the mother to fuck off and fix it herself all your really hurting is the kid.

I agree wholeheartedly with FABMX. When you let the mother suffer, you often hurt the child. There is no justification for ruining a child's life to punish a teen mother.I must also say that people sometimes make mistakes, and it is truly a virtue to forgive. This applies particularly to young mothers, many of whom are poorly educated and all of whom are not emotionally mature.

I agree as well, but this shit happens because teens being irresponcable. Each irresponcable action can chagne your life, so I think these girls need to think of the chances they're taking before they have can potentially fuck up their life.

I think most of you are missing the point. I know my post sounds harsh, but I feel people have relaxed A LOT when it comes to this issue. First off, I understand that it is not the child's fault that it was born and has a CHILD for parents. I do not blame the children. There are so many couples who cannot have kids and these teens are throwing their kids in dumpsters or if they do keep them, setting them up with the higher risk of poverty and themselves getting pregnant in their future. Futher more, I think it is appalling that 12,13,14, 15 year old teens are becoming pregnant. IT"S ABSOLUTELY DISGUSTING. I have come across too many pregnant 6th graders that I wanted to scream and throw rocks at them! There is just no reason! I know they are curious, but if you cannot protect yourself properly, you should not be having sex. There is no fucking excuse! I stand by my post stating that I do not have sympathy for teen moms! I know some of you think,"well, they already feel bad,let's just support and make them think everything's ok." Whatever. They should feel ashamed. I don;t know why we protect these broads. For instance, at my high school they have the ROSE program, which a cute little class that they stick all the pregnant girls. NO! I want to see you walking around with your shame. Maybe your dumbass will remember how it feels and won't end up in a situation like that again!!! Now before any of yall say it might happen to me, i'm 19, graduated from high school, and will go on the shot, so none of this applies to me!!! HA HA! I'm responsible and old to deal with problem if it arises. I just dont see how a 13 year old could.

Mistakes happen. I don't believe in young teens having sex, but you don't know the situation. I don't think they should be outcasted for it though, and honey the shot can always backfire. Even at 19 you're not fully responsible enough to raise a child.

Very well put!

I think the main point here is that kids/teens are having sexual relations at a much earlier age and that society has come to accept it as the norm. Although we shouldn't ostracize these young mothers, much needs to be done to educate and not be acceptant of the trend.

Some people are still not getting it. There is no such thing as mistakes. If you put yourself in a situation that may have serious consequences (no matter how old you are), you cannot blame anyone but yourself. Teens think they are invincible and "it could never happen to me" and then when it does, we should feel sorry. I refuse! I'm not perfect, but I'm human who has a mind to think and make decisions with. When I stated that I am mature, I have taken the necessary precautions when it comes to being sexually active, because I do not intend on becoming pregnant and raising a child at 19. You're right when you say I'm not fully responsible to raise a child. I don't want to. I'm young and have my whole life to have kids. I don't need the added stress. I intend to use the shot and condoms for my protection everytime I have sex because I refuse to be a statistic. No sex is that good to ruin your life over. It is so overrated. Kids need to be kids, teens need to be teens, adults need to be adults. Enough said.

I think it's you that's not getting it. Nobody here is preaching that teen sex is right, but like I said before you don't know the situation. I'd use my next door neighbor as a example, but I'm honestly not going to go into all the details on here. THERE ARE THINGS CALLED MISTAKES. If you think mistakes don't happen then you're living in a fantasy world.

I agree.. Doesn't matter how old you are.. Things will happen. I'm leaving in 15 minutes.. I dont know whats going to happen.. Someone may pull out and I may nail them.. I may not see a car.. I may be going and a tire will blow out.. My car might break down.. Things happen.. We can't sit here and tell these teen mothers to get bent.. cause all your hurting is the kid. How come your not angry at teen fathers? I don't know about other guys.. but if I had sex and happen to get the girl pregant, I'm sticking around. She isn't going at it alone. I know if I was a father and already established with a family and my teenage daughter got pregant, I would take her in. I would help her so she could continue her education and become something, instead of just a teen mother.. I'm not going to pat her on the back for it, but I'm not going to yell at her and tell her she is on her own either...

I really don't think you can compare teen pregnancy to your car breaking down or your tire blowing out. A mistake is something you knowingly do and now regret. Let's say someone does pull out in front of you and you hit them with your car, FaBMX; for you it was an accident-a situation that is beyond your control and in no way, shape or form, you could have avoided. Now for the person who pulled out in front of you, he made a mistake. Do see what I mean? Thinking about it now though, I guess I do believe in mistakes. We're human. But the "mistake" of teen pregnancy keeps happening over and over again, that the mistake excuse is old. Oh and don;t think I don't have hatred and contempt for young men who make babies and then dissapear. I hate them more than teen mothers!!!! It makes me sick to my stomach that girls and women are forced to stay with their babies, while men can run the streets and not take care of responsibilities. Thanks for reminding me that not only has America accepeted teen pregnancy as the norm but we have accepted the fact that more often than not dads most likely wont be there for their children.

b 4 u judge try n walk a mile in there shoes!!!

Amen to that!! Its not easy when things like that happen.. even when i thought it was happening to me.. i had to run all the options through my head on what i was going to do.. you think its easy for them? I know it isnt.. Ive known so many girls who have had an abortion because they didnt want to hear what other people say.. Teenage monthers.. or any mothers who arent prepared... they need support.. and a post that you first posted definetly wasnt... And I would have so much respect for a teenager who actually chose to keep their child and raise them.. because let me tell you.. it isnt easy.

What I would say is that we shouldn't sympthise exactly the mothers, who shouldn't be pitied or sympthized because of gettin drunk and getting horny and does it with the first man she sees. But there are different things. I have an 18 year old cousin who has a year old baby because she got raped, therefore it wasn't her fault and she isn't to blame. But I have a cousin who knocked up this girl at 16 (both are). They shouldn't be pitied because they're family is behind them, but still it was a stupid thing to do because my cousin isn't taking responsibility, only the mother is. We should sympthise the baby out, because it wasn't he or shes fault that they entered this world because of two horny teenagers. SO in people and teen magazine, they should write an article about how a baby with two drunken horny teenagers is going to grow up, instead of how a drunken teenage mother can't get any sleep because of what she created by not keeping her legs closed.

What I'm saying is that sometimes they don't want to take responsibility for what will happen. Abviously if you have sex, theres a 1-2 % chance that it'll break and you'll get her fertilized. But even if that happens, sometimes they don't want to care for the baby. Some do, some don't. This isn't a general topic, theres different conditions and different examples for this subject, but I think what the person is trying to say is that if you don't want to have a baby, keep your legs closed, unless you want to take a risk at what might happen on a rare occasion where you will have to become an adult for..well commiting "adultry".