So firstly I'm 18 and I've never had a sexual experience. Lately I think Imay be bi-sexual as I've found guys very attractive lately....Now, my parents are on vacation and I really wanna have my first gay sexual experience. But the problem is I don't know how to go abbout it..None of my friends know i'm bi and i don't plan on telling any of them soon.. I really want to experience this with someone around my age with maybe someone in the same situation.I've posted ads on craigslist and searched through them also but haven't really found anybody.Is craigslist safe? Cause i'm kind of scared of who is out there but i really want to have the experience with someone around my age. What do you suggest i do?
Confused about my first sexual experience
_I've posted ads on craigslist and searched through them also but haven't really found anybody.
Are you insane?
In some places there are social things organised for gay young people - that might be a good place, if possible, to get to know some people. You don't want anonymous sex out of desperation, surely.
Anonymous hook-ups can be dangerous in any number of ways. Are you in an area that is metropolitan enough to have a GLBT youth club, if not, at least look for one on line and pursue your desire through there.Should you decide to take the risk of a Craig's List hook-up (please just don't do that) don't let 'em know where you live. Be sure you control the situation. Meet on neutral public ground, like the lobby of a nice hotel. Gard your personal info, your wallet and what not. If your gonna do this go to a good hotel check-in and have 'em put your valuables in the hotel vault. Let a friend know where your at. You don't have to tell 'em who your with. Have a plausible escape plan at all times. I don't mean just as in jumping out the window. I mean as in, this person makes me feel a little uncomfortable, I don't think this was such a good idea. Ya know like have your phone ring and, "Ohh grandma died. Sorry I've gotta go."Now having said all that just don't do it.
I had another thought about this. If you do insist on going through with an anonymous hook-up the safest thing you can probably do is go to a reputable bath house. As long as your 18 your good to get in. If this is the experience you want Google bathhouse to find one. I found bathhouse addict, it can probably answer your questions but you can find their site yourself.
I just think this would be a lot safer alternative to Craig's List for getting your feet (or whatever) wet with the whole gay thing. I think the main benefit here is your not isolated.