This week my corazón was broken into piecesThe man I love with all my heart, mind, body, and soul ripped me apartHe shattered my world and tore a hole inside of meI've been dating a man for six monthsWe've had our share of problemsMany stemming from the fact we're from two diffrent countries, two difrrent back grounds, two diffrent beliefsBut we've managed to pull through and work things outUntil he said four words I had never heard him say before'My wife in Mexico'He had been drinking and talking about his family and it just slipped outMy heart stopped and it felt like it was just going to fall out of my chestI ended it because I refuse to be apart of a lieNow he wont stop calling meI broke down and went to see him so I could return his thingsAll he did was cry and beg me to come back to himI'm so confused and broken that I just don't know what to do
Babe I am sorry to hear this :(. My advice would be to end things until he resolves the issue of the wife. Even than I'd be cautious, I have learned a few times over "once a cheater, always a cheater". Sad that such a saying can be so true :frowning:
If you need me you know how to reach me hun *More Hugs*
So sorry sweety. Let yourself go through the grief process and deal with all of your feelings but don't let him ruin your trust in others. Remember he is only one person and not everybody is like that. Do what's best for you right now and know that we're here to listen add offer what we can however little it may be.
He keeps asking me if we're going to be okay
Keeps telling me he wants me to be happy with him
He laid his head in my lap yesterday and cried and cried
He's called a million and one times it seems this week
I love him
I love him with everything that I am
I thought I could keep my heart to myself
But he managed to wiggle his way in
I'm doing my best to keep my distance
Last night I slept in his shirt because it smells like him
This morning I ignored my alarm and didn't call him to wake him up for work
Probably the best thing you can do is decide what course you want to pursue and stick to it regardless the hurt. If you don't want to see this guy anymore than stay away from him. Make it clear to him it's over. And, when he comes calling ignore it. I know that's so much easier said than done but it's better for your mental health, I think, than remaining in some, maybe we are - maybe we aren't, limbo.If you do want to pursue a relationship with him then you have to lay down your demands and make sure that he respects them. Let him know this is what you require and your not going to settle for less. Mean it and hold him to it. Don't let your feelings for him cloud your reasoning in how he treats you.Spend a little time thinking about what you want and where you want to be and make a decision no matter how painful it may be at the moment. Long drawn out pains can be much more hurtful, they are to me anyway.
I agree with Scotty. And it seems to me that a wife that he wouldn't tell you about is a very bad sign. I'm very sorry.
He keeps calling me, begging me to come back to himHe's been asking me to go to breakfast, lunch, or dinner with himHe keeps asking if I'll go dancing with himHe keeps asking me to come to his house just so he can hold meAnd I keep ignoring his callsI miss him so muchI miss his kisses and soft touchesI miss listening to him speak spanish to meI miss watching him cook for me or me cooking for himI miss watching him dance like a goofball to his favorite songsI don't know how to let go because he's my heartI've put his things in a box and placed them in my closet, where I can't see them or touch themWell almost all of them, I still sleep in his shirtJust because it smells just like him
I still sleep in his shirt Just because it smells just like him
Ok girlfriend, you need to wash that shirt, spray it with your perfume and then send it to his wife!
Is he seperated, thinking of divorce, or is he just a dirty scummy bastard cheater? You deserve better. Stop torturing yourself with his dirty cheater T-shirt. I know what you are feeling is one of the worst feelings in the world, but you need to pick yourself up and be done with him.
I agree, if your gonna cut the ties do it quickly and completely. Feel what your gonna feel but don't torture yourself.
Like Lish asked is he separated or just a cheater?
Any man who doesnt want to invest his heart 100% into you IS NOT WORTH YOUR TIME. You're sooooo much better than that.. I know that! Everyone here knows that!!I replied to this post to quote this! Quote: Ok girlfriend, you need to wash that shirt, spray it with your perfume and then send it to his wife! DO IT.. EXPRESS MAIL!!