hi,I have recently started having a sexual relationship with my girlfriend and she wants sex and i say no because i havnt got any condoms. she then says 'you dont need a condom you just need to take it out before you cum'. i could do that but im unsure if you get STD's or STI's just by contact and without ejaculating.Thanks for your help:)
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Sex without a condom?
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Hi,First of all the withdrawl method is a pretty flimsy form of birth control. There is a substance called pre cum that is secreted prior to orgasm that you can't feel. It contains sperm and can cause pregnancy. And yes you can get STD/STI's just by contact without ejaculating. I know it's hard to say no to sex but by being the stronger person and insisting on condoms you are doing both of you an enormous favor. There are so many careless people in this world. Thank you for being mature and responsible.
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Get yourself a condom. If sex is at all a possibility keep one on you. Make sure to store it properly. Know how to use it. Practice putting one on.
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Sooner or later you're going to succumb to her wishes. While I laud you for your strength and abstinence, I do agree that it would be a good idea to have a condom with you for insurance.If she has any STI you are certainly exposed to it with or without a condom. Any skin to skin contact with an affected area exposes you, no matter how long you penetrate her. The condom not only prevents your semen from entering her (if used properly) but also protects the covered area from skin to skin contact.
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Oh well it doesnt matter now she dumped me its not like theres gunna be anyone else that want to do it with me and theres no-one else i want to do it with so whats the point?
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They'll come around give it a little time and you'll find another. I know that's no consolation but hang in there it'll get better.