I'm not a fan of big posts, so basically my girlfriend is a year older than me and at uni (and living) two hours away. I go up most weekends to see her. Apart from my initial freshers week paranoia, theres one guy who she seems to be getting on well with, although she's the kind that gets on with guys better.
He's been asking her to go for a drink and stuff, and although I trust my girlfriend completely, it really winds me up to think he's hitting on her.
Basically, how do you guys deal with that kind of thing? I don't mean "SHOULD I GO HIT HIM?" or "Should I tell her to stay away from him?" because thats obviously "no", I'm not the aggressive type and I don't want to be controlling.
But how do you deal with it when she mentions his name and it creeps right under your skin and gets you aggitated?
I don't know, I'm feeling like that now and don't want to be like this.