i dont even know where to begin with this. ive been with a guy for about 2 months now, everythings been good. last monthish, i installed a keylogger on my pc and got his passwords and stuff, because we dated a year ago and he was talking to a lot of other girls on myspace, and all that fun stuff. anyway, i wanted to see if he really did change, and i didnt find anything bad. so the other day i decided to check up on him again because he hasnt been acting right, and i found this. read from the bottom up"from the club u work, or worked at lol, unless im going nuts and u have the same name as and look exactly like the person im thinking of lol, but if u are her i guess u dont remember me, but its ok haha, yeah, i got many dances from u and was supposed to get a vip till i lost my mind and moved to pa, yea, u prolly think im like nuts haha, well if u want im me, my aim is #######, if youd like to chat that is =)----------------- Original Message -----------------From: gabriellaDate: Nov 24, 2008 12:28 AMu miss me?where do we know eachother from----------------- Original Message -----------------From: RobDate: Nov 24, 2008 12:15 AMheyy, i must say, i miss u lots "i really don't know what to do about this. i know invading his privacy was completely uncalled for, but so is this. any advice?
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I am completely lost
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I can't imagine that a relationship that involves spying would work well, whether or not there was anything to find.
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I gotta agree with Pete on this one. Keep in mind sometimes flirtation is nothing but an ego boost. For instance just because I flirt with people here doesn't mean I'm about to cheat on my wife. I'm not that type. But if she were to take a simple snap shot of some of the shit I say to them it wouldn't look to good.For myself, I say, if you can't trust the guy then don't be with him. Either trust him or don't.
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i know i was wrong, and im paying for it, but he actually did cheat on me the last time we dated. he was engaged to some girl. if it wasnt for me hacking into his myspace, and reading that stuff, everything would be perfect
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Its a chick thing. I would have done the same thing! Look what you found.. that IS NOT being honest. confront him about it.
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i would, but im horribly afraid to. i don't want to lose him
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so you're down with him sweet talking some hunny he used to grind with at the bar??
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no..im gonna end up talking to him soon, i just gotta think of what to say