Big mistake

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ok so heres the deal last night i got angry and told my girl i didnt want to be with her i tried to do it over the phone but she didnt answer so i sent her a text and i havent heard back, but i regret what i did so much cuz i love her i jsut got mad cuz of the stress im going through and that she hadnt talked to me at all that day,i jsut got out of hte emergancy room that day so i thoguth she woudl at least check up on me,i havent heard back form here in 2 days now im so scared that im going to soe her cuz i was dumb and made a mistake i text her teling her i was sorry and ditn mean iti but nothing back, waht should i do?

Go and see her, with flowers.

i cant we live an hour away we havent seen eachother in a month thats part of why i was stressed i just felt she didnt care

Talk to her face to face. If she doesn't want to see you write her letter (as in hand written) and mail it (not e-mail, mail like with stamps and shit). Tell her how you fucked up and how you feel and all that shit with some heart felt emotion behind it. Let this be a lesson not to just react but to calculate your position and think through your next move. As a matter of fact, use calculated moves to try and win her back.

Flowers, chocolates and an apology. Dont text or call....just go to her and apologize cos you telling it personally will be better than sms if you luv her and want her back.

An hour away isn't so far - is there any way you can get there? Face-to-face is much more effective for this sort of thing.

You need to do this face to face. Honestly, you broke up with her in a kind of a bitch way.. man up.

i pretty much think i lost her now, i feel so damn stupid for loseing her ,, she just dupmbec her boyfriend to be with me andhten i say that stupid crap and lose her from my life im trying so hard not to cry i feel like my heeart was riped out now it succks ass

Go to her!

If you dont go to her then how do know you lost her? You may not be the only one feeling miserable, she may be feeling worse than you. It will do both of you good if you meet and talk to her before its too late.

I dont mean to sound like a bitch.. but it doesnt seem like youre doing anything to try to fix the situation.

im trying my best to fix things but for one i dont know if shes at her moms or dads and i dont know where her dads hosue is and both places are an hour awa y and i have no lisince , if i could go see her i would but its not reallly an option right now, all i can do is talk to her on the internet or text or phone but she dosnt want to talk on any of those so at this point im kinda screwed

Any buses? A bike? A friend with a car? Can you afford a taxi?If seeing her is impossible a letter or a phone call is better than nothing.

there isent way to see here cu i live in the middel of no where the neriest town is 20 minutes away by car, and im drvieng down to where she lives tommrow to take my firend who lives arouind there as well home, but shes not going to be at her moms house tommrow morning , im considering going and buying osme flowers and bring them to her mom and telling her to say there from me but her mom dosnt know we where dateing again, so i dont know how it go, she read my message on myspace but wont replie but i told her id give her some space and wont text her and told her to text me when she wants to ttalk everything out, and she wont asnwer my calls

You can get florists to deliver flowers, and they can send them with a card, too. (And send a letter as well.)

You are expected to be prepared to go to some trouble to keep a woman. It would probably be possible to find her father's address with some discreet enquiries (or perhaps through the phone book).

that could be a good idea, im thnking when i bring her her xmas presents in a few days that ill bring fllowers and try and talk to her,and im willing to try anything to keep this women, but honnislty i care somucha bout her that i want her to be happy even if that means i cant be in he rlifei have htought about hte phone book but i dont know his first name and im assumeing her last name is verry camon lol but its worth a shoti had his addrese but it was in my old cell phone and it broke

If you know the town, and it's a small one, an online phone directory will narrow it down, and perhaps you'll then recognise the right one.

her dad lives in large city only me and her moms palce are in to small towns but i thik im going to try and look it up but i sitll need away there

You sound VERY defeatist about this.If you REALLY care about her, then you'll do damned near anything to see her.My girlfriend lives 3 hours away. If I didn't have my car, I'd get the train. If I couldn't get the train, I'd go by bus. If I couldn't go by bus, then I would probably go by taxi (though things start getting really expensive from here!). If I was broke, I'd walk it. It would take a very, very long time, and my feet would fall off by the end of it, but if that's what it takes to see her - then so be it.Point is, I love her more than anyone or anything on this planet, and there isn't a force in the world short of death that would stop me from going to see her.

Do you know her dads house phone number??