Me and my girlfriend are just starting to get intamite. shes 19. shes still a virgin and it seems like whenever I touch her...it hurts her...any tips on what not to do and waht to do so I don't hurt her? Thanks.
So for instance when you try to finger her or put your penis in her it hurts? If so remember to take it slow, and use ALOT of lube. With her being a virgin and depending on your size it may hurt the first few times. My girlfriend was also a virgin and we started with fingering (months before sex) and went from there. 1 finger to 2, etc. I dont have a large penis (not even close) and it hurt her the first two times, so just take it slow and easy and communicate with her to find out what she likes, what hurts/doesnt hurt, etc and you will be fine. Best O' Luck.
Get her turned on completely, use lube and start by inserting your finger slowly, let her get used to the feeling for a few days, then try using two fingers....she will feel less painful and even open up a bit, so its easier and less painful for her to have sex. She will surely be fine. Best of luck.Also try to encourage her by telling her some nice and soothing words, calm her before getting intimate cos sometimes girls are worried about feeling pain or bleeding when they first do it and that sort of interferes with their pleasure.Its nice of you to worry about your girl .....cos my partner hadnt even bothered about how I felt or hurt