Hey everyone!I'm 19 years old and have been masturbating regularly probably since 13. Over the past few months I have begun to convulse slightly at climax during masturbation. I'm not afraid, but I find it very odd that it has recently developed. As far as I can remember, it has never happened to me before this period.The only changes in my life that could possibly be related are that I've had my first sexual experience with a girl, and that I've begun smoking cigarettes (am I gonna get an earful?).Notes on the sexual experience: I was not brought to climax by her, though I've brought her to climax a handful of times. Unfortunately she goes to school across the country from me, in case you're wondering why I haven't "gotten any". : / I'm under the assumption that this sexual frustration is related, but can't say for sure.Does anyone have any insight to share?Thanks for reading.
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Male convulsion at climax - recent development?
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convulse slightly at climax I'm not sure what this means... Are you not just having a strong orgasm?
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Do you mean "convulse" as in shaking with pleasure or as in violent muscle contractions/ spasms?
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I am a girl but I have felt rapid uncontrollable shaking after having an orgasm once or twice which had never happened to me before I started getting intimate with my boyfriend.If you have sex with your girlfriend and get a few climaxes with her then I think it will go away. Yes it maybe related to the sexual frustration. Originally Posted By: Shaw_RI've begun smoking cigarettes (am I gonna get an earful?). STOP SMOKING...STOP SMOKING...STOP SMOKING...is that enough of a earful? Smoking effects us in a lot of ways...better stop it right now before you get addicted cos its very hard to get rid of the habit once its formed.
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Originally Posted By: Shaw_RThe only changes in my life that could possibly be related are that I've had my first sexual experience with a girlSimilar to me. Since I got my girlfriend, my orgasms have been incredible. Good inspiration I suppose. I've had the best orgasms in my life thinking about her. Also had my first multiple orgasms (yes, men CAN have them!).
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Originally Posted By: sdpI'm not sure what this means... Are you not just having a strong orgasm? I think I am indeed just having a strong orgasm, using my own judgment and the consensus in the thread. Originally Posted By: OldFolksDo you mean "convulse" as in shaking with pleasure or as in violent muscle contractions/ spasms? The former. Originally Posted By: SayaSTOP SMOKING...STOP SMOKING...STOP SMOKING...is that enough of a earful? I appreciate your concern and I don't intend to sound sarcastic, but I did lots of health research when I decided to have my second tobacco item. I currently enjoy tobacco alot, but I suppose we'll see if I can say the same in thirty years, huh? Originally Posted By: sadbuttrueSimilar to me. Since I got my girlfriend, my orgasms have been incredible. Good inspiration I suppose. I've had the best orgasms in my life thinking about her. Also had my first multiple orgasms (yes, men CAN have them!). Argh, reading that gives me such mixed feelings. On one hand, it makes me think of how beautiful humanity is, as is the bond between you two. On the other, it makes me very very sad that the girl I mentioned above can't be more than a long distance non-exclusive thing, not boyfriend/girlfriend thing.
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I was just teasing you about smoking you did ask if you are gonna get a earful in your first post...didnt you? So take it as a joke Its your life so do as you wish.
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Originally Posted By: Shaw_ROn the other, it makes me very very sad that the girl I mentioned above can't be more than a long distance non-exclusive thing, not boyfriend/girlfriend thing. Out of interest, how far away?My girlfriend lives 3 hours away from me but I don't let that get in the way of what we have.
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Originally Posted By: sadbuttrueOut of interest, how far away?My girlfriend lives 3 hours away from me but I don't let that get in the way of what we have. I live in New Jersey somewhat ironically, five minutes from her house. She's a highschool senior at a private highschool in Michigan. According to google maps, the drive is about 14 hours. One thing I selfishly regret, is that over the summer she was considering not returning to MI for her senior year, and going back to the public school in this area. I encouraged her to go back to MI because it's better for her in the long run, but crikey, if I could take that back I would.Pretty selfish of me, huh?
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It's not selfish to want things for yourself. Selfishness is not a matter of desires but actions - the advice you gave was in her interest rather than your own, so not selfish at all.
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Originally Posted By: Ineligiblethe advice you gave was in her interest rather than your own, so not selfish at all. He said he "selfishly regrets" giving her the unselfish advice. So yeah, it's a selfish thought, but not in a nasty way. It's perfectly natural to feel that way about something. The point is that the decision was made in her best interest. Whether you like it or not is not relevant, as you did the right thing