I know a girl who has had a crush on a kid for 4 years, and the kid just leads her on and maked fun of her. And I kinda like the girl as more than friends, but she has this crush on the kid. She knows that the kids an asshole and makes fun of her behind her back and leads her on, but she cant seem to get him out of her head. Is there anything I can do, or she can do to help her?
Help my friends and i if possible...
Ask her out.
Let her know he's a dick in round about way. Be subtle but spare her feelings. Whether you should tell her he laughs at her behind her back is a matter of debate. I think all that would accomplish is making her feel like shit.Be more tactful. For instance, tell her about how you got pissed off at him for making fun of a girl as soon as she walked away while being all friendly to her face. Or whatever it is he's doing. You don't need to tell her it's her, I don't think anyway. Just begin painting him as a real asshole and after a while of hearing how he treats people she may not be so interested in him.The ask her out. If you wanna get with her your gonna have to make the move.