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after u give a blowjob and the guy has cummed, should i still suck on it? or does it hurt them?

You need to ask him...for some of us, once we're done any additional stimulation can become quite painful or uncomfortable. Just ask him what he likes, he'll let you know.

normally after he completely stops cummin you can stop and most guys get that "weird" feelin if you keep on right after hes through. but just ask him and see what he likes. everyone is different.

Yaah, only continue if he says it's ok, or if he's still very erect.

As Lance said most of us find it uncomfortable. I'd also add that the sensitivity of the head often makes post-orgasm stimulus in this area very uncomfortable (even if he's still erect). As always, asking him is the best strategy, but I would default to no post-BJ stimulus.

I like it sometimes if the just stop for a second and do whatever. swallow or spit. kinda hold on to it make sure everything is out. and maybe just give it a little more . then be done. personal preference tho for most guys.

it feels kinda weird if you try to jack off more after coming. i can only just about bare it.

The head of the penis gets super sensitive after cumming for a few minutes. It gets so sensitive its unbearable to take more stimulation, and is really uncomfortable. I mean you can do it, but its like wow, this is too much to be considered fun! Its like your clit after you orgasm - it gets super sensitive to the point its almost too much to take, right? Well, think of the head of the penis the same way. The rest of the penis doesn't get as sensitive though, so if you want to play or lick the shaft, that's OK. For most guys, this super sensitive period after orgasm goes away in just a few minutes, so if you wait just a few minutes, then go back at it, that should work fine. Again, just ask him - communication is key.

does anyone else think that its even more sexy if you just let the girl take total control wen sucking u off so like you are completely defensless and just let her do whatever she likes to make you come or is that just me being weird?

Girls in control is totally sexy man.. but i guess its a personal thing..i personally find skirts to be REALLY hot..lol

what do you girlies think? does it turn you on wen a guy lets you take total control over everything?