I made a post the other week about me sleeping with girlfriend for first time ...we had sex on christmas day night i was very horny and had a few beers!i went down on her for about 10mins she was loving that (well seemed to) grasping the pillow over her face saying oh my god!then i started penetration missionary position then doggy then she sucked my cock and then she sat on it all in all lasted around 40-50mins most of it was hard sex!i was holding back cumming a lot and eventually got to the point where i was very stiff but didnt feel like cumming!i really enjoyed it but was a little gutted didnt come, although i think she enjoyed it also should i have been better off cumming earlier or will she have enjoyed the sex lasting longer? hmmmthanks
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If I read your post correctly, I have the same problem. If I fuck for to long I can't seem to cum. I think that's what you where saying. The best advice I have is to exercise your jaw muscles and a keep your tongue in shape. (Remember with oral take your time. Your not a pig at a trough. If she's about to cum don't stop and relax your mouth deal with the pain, man up and finish her off. Otherwise she's more than likely gonna have to start all over.) That way you can get her off before you get on top of her. That's not to say use that strategy every time. Sometimes just accept that your goal is to get her off and that may mean you go to long and your not gonna get off.
One other thing to keep in mind pounding away for to long isn't going to do anything but make her sore. Communication is key, learn to read her signals.
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In my experience, if you can make her orgasm, as long as you last 20 minutes or so all is well.
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but wouldnt she think oh i didnt make him cum?
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It really depends on the girl. I mean, I know that I personally have that kind of mindset. But with other girls its different. Some of my friends dont really care.