My girlfriend stayed over at mine for two nights this week. Both of us are virgins and we just went for non-penetrative sex acts. She doesnt really know what shes doing when it comes to oral sex. She got pretty upset about it, saying she felt like she didnt know what she was doing and was scared she wouldnt be able to please me. I could understand why it would be frustrating for her, I did everything I could to explain she can take her time and she shouldnt feel pressured.
The initial problem was that her teeth were rubbing hard on my dick which was very uncomfortable and I had to tell her so, which of understandably damaged her confidance and she became visibly nervous about what she was doing, and more or less inactive til I just got soft. Later we went for it with me kneeled over her so I could direct my cock into her mouth which I enjoyed, though I dont think was emotionally satisfying for her as I was the one making all the motion and I get the impression she wants to be able to make an effort for me but doesnt really know how.
I want to be able to give practical advice that could boost her confidance, otherwise I'm worried she will just get more frustrated as time goes on and just stop enjoying it. When I was a kid and first acquired female attention I was always uptight and worried about things and it ruined it for me and I dont want that to be the case for her. However I am inexperienced too and dont have much I can say to her. Anyone got any advice about what I can say to her that will improve her understanding and make her less nervous? I appreciate this will not happen overnight btw.
Cheers