Cant cum during sex

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Ok, so i have had sex a few times and a few BJ, but i can never cum. I have had sex for almost an hour and i cant seem to finish. I can cum masturbating, so i know everything works. Any ideas?

Do you take any medication?

no i dont, but could that really effect it?

I believe some anti-depressants can affect sexual activity.It could also be something in your head (i.e. nervousness).

i don't think im ever nervous, i just don't seem to ever get to that point. It could be something in my head though i suppose

Practice makes perfect.

Your penis can become so used to masturbating that it doesn't find real sex or oral sex stimulating enough. That can particularly happen if your masturbation technique is a bit rough, as your earlier post seemed to suggest.Simply more experience may help; it can also help if you cut down on masturbating, especially for a day or so before sex.

What Ineligable.. Inelegable, fuck it, ...Pete said, go without wankage for a few days before you have sex and see how it works for ya.

Welcome to my world Scotch LoL. To this day I have yet to cum from oral sex, but on very rare occassions I can cum from intercourse. I have extremely high stamina.I do agree I think a lot of it has to do with being used to the sensation from masturbating. My suggestion would be avoid masturbating for awhile so you can get used to the sensation from intercourse.Either way enjoy the experience even if you cannot cum from intercourse or a blow job. As long as your partner understands it's nothing to do with them and they are doing everything right... all should be good. I personally just have my partner help me jerk off once I get them off. It's still very pleasurable

Originally Posted By: OldFolksWhat Ineligable.. Inelegable, fuck it, ...Pete said, go without wankage for a few days before you have sex and see how it works for ya. HA HA HA HA WAHHHHHHHwas this post made just for me?

Partly... I hate fuckin' try to spell Ineligable. I never get it right.

Pete, why the fuck do you have to have such a hard fuckin' screen name to spell. It's the shits for us less than perfect spellers. :cry:

If it wasn't for spell check nobody could probably read my shit.

Sorry! But it could have been worse, I could have been zy[|gQw{5b. :smile:

I use to fuck for 2-3 hours before I could come.Try masturbating more, or maybe less I dunno.

Originally Posted By: IneligibleSorry! But it could have been worse, I could have been zy[|gQw{5b. If that were the case you'd probably just be ignored altogether.

Let me guess, Scotch. You don't have a foreskin, do you.

no i dont, im cut. How did u guess? and i tried not touching myself for a week and a half, but that didnt help. Well, guess i will just have to keep trying

Originally Posted By: Scotchno i dont, im cut. How did u guess? and i tried not touching myself for a week and a half, but that didnt help. Well, guess i will just have to keep trying Hey I think I can help.. how do you masterbate? Using your hand or you are lying face down (prone) if its prone it could be something called TMS (Traumatic Mastabatory Syndrone) not as bad as it sounds... it means that since you are laying prone you're putting too much pressure on the base of the penis. Since that's happens that same feeling cannot be replicated just through vaginal intercourse. In the long term if you are masterbating that way it can cause long term effects on your sexual health. If you do masterbate that way here are some suggestions don't masterbate for a few days then masterbate with your hand. You may not feel anything do to your previous acts of masterbation but create an environment and have that same fantasy you did prone.If you don't have Symptoms of TMS, then while having sex clear your mind and focus on the feelings... If you can't cum, that means you're not feelings anything. If you are feeling something and you just can't cum, you should very well see a doctor.I hope that info helps you out.Also, if you do believe you fit in that TMS category and that was not good info to help google traumatic mastabatory syndrome

Traumatic Masturbatory Syndrome seems to be an hypothesis of one man, based on four cases. It has been widely publicised in an anonymous website that gives it more credibility than it deserves. The evidence is not strong and it's not widely believed in the field. There's a good discussion here.

i had it. i know it works, only reason why i recommend it. just a suggestion. if theres more research on it im sure it'll be proven correct. i think.remember back when i said i couldn't cum?? that was the reason. once i did those steps and took time to do it it reversed fast. just i only waited 2 days of mastabatin