When the girl you talking to,is soooo beautiful but she's hurt cuz her dumb ex broke her heart, which to be honest he don't even deserve her, so I tried to cheer her up by taking her to movies and making her laugh, but i know she not looking for relationship yet and that's understandable. So we talked nothing serious just friendly convo., and then 3 days past without contacting her cuz i was busy with work, so she called me and we talked bout 2 hrs, bout life, would u get married,and etc.,so she got tired then i told her i call her the next day, so I did she picked and told me she call me back, but she never did, I did not sweat it though. So I told myself she was probably busy, so hopefully she call me or text me, boy was I wrong the only text I got from her was those stupid chain letter, but every time i go on facebook, she will hit me up and have a convo., but my question is should i call her, or just play the waiting game, cuz at 1st she was a homegirl to me but, when we went out to c the movie, I caught some feelings, i don't know if it was the hug she gave me or her laughing at any jokes I said including the lame ones. I did not had these feelings since my ex 2 years ago, but i'm not stressed bout it.
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Don't you hate....., and i have a question
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Honestly i hate the whole playing games thing, whether its the guy playing the girl or the girl playing the guy, i just never understood the purpose. She may have just forgotten to call you back and it could be an honest mistake. Id say go with your normal routine of calling her and if it keeps happening then maybe id be suspicious, but if it only happened once i wouldn't stress.
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I'm playing the waiting game unfortunately. I've decided not to contact him anymore just to see if he'll contact me.I just got fed up with trying to contact him when he told me to contact him and he doesn't respond during the week but on Sundays. This time instead of texting him first on Sunday, I'm gonna see if he texts me or if he just texted me back these past few times just because I texted him first.I'd wait, honestly. Don't seem too clingy.
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So i texted her yesterday when i was at the barber shop, telling her to call me when your not busy, she never replied to the text or called me. So i realized that she have a full-time job and goes to church 3 times a week, so she probably so busy in the day to even contact me. I may just need to move on cuz if i can't contact her and tell her bout the feelings i got 4 her or even talk bout how her day went. I need to subside my feelings for her as for now, and hopefully she call or text back, but meantime I need to find my Valentine, it was suppose to be her, but wut can you do.
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::UPDATE:: So I started to talk to this other girl I had meet thru my friend to keep my mind off of her. It was working we did not texted or talked for about a week or 2. So one day she decided to text me at 2 a.m asking me if i was awake which i was, at first i was not going to answer back but i decided to answer. Then she told me to call her when I am not busy, so i called her n 10 mins, and she did not pick up, so i texted her and did not text back. So I laughed it off and went to sleep. So 2 days later she text me saying, o i did not hear the phone ring, (which to me sound like BS), but i saw u called me but forgot to tell U and then LOL. I was like ok shit happens, but really I wanted to say, o that's your best excuse u could come up with. But that ticked me the hell off, but i shook it off and wonder Y she keep doing this to me playing games with me, I hate it. So wut should i do, calling her is not the best option for me as for now. So should I just focus my attention to the girl i'm talking to now, seems to me the best option.