Websex Update

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Wow. How long has it been? 2 years I think. For such a span of time, this probably won't be much of an update.

So, let's get the material things out of the way since they're boring. I bought a house, debating between an RX8 or waiting for the 2010 Honda Fit Hybrid, and still working the same job. What can I say other than it's a good job. It will be nice to retire at 44, I think.

So, the last time I remember posting I was just starting a relationship with an older woman. I was 19, turning 20, and she was 36. It turned out to be an amazing 2 year relationship. Why did we break up? Well, it was mostly circumstantial and things beyond our control. I don't regret it one bit.

Recent dilemma. Not long before my 2 year relationship started with the older woman, I met a girl through a friend of mine. We slept together a few times and then she went back to college. Despite me being in a relationship, we remained platonic with each other and we're close friends. Here is where it gets complicated. I'm really liking her best friend. I always kind of had a thing for her the first time we met. If I do something for one, then the other gets jealous or pissed. This has been going on for a couple of months now. So, what did I do for Valentine's day? I sent roses to both of them. BAD WEBSEX! I think I'm a bad influence on their friendship and seriously thinking about just giving up my pursuit for the best friend. If I were working on pure logic I would have done it by now. Dang feelings. So, in an attempt to move on I started talking to a girl who works at NASA and things seem to be going well with that... but I'm still strongly feeling for the best friend. Dang feelings.

That's about it. 2 years summed up.

Wow, websex!Your last post before today was 13 months ago, but I think this was your first post, 62 months ago.

Hey websex, Can't say I remember you being a sparse poster myself but its always good to see a fellow Georgia member Anyways, if I may say, if you two have a platonic friendship and broke up on good terms, why not just ask her if it would be alright to date her friend? Seems like you all are on good terms. Well regardless, a hardy welcome back from me!

Wondered what happened to you...glad things are going OK.

Welcome back!! I hope! R u staying??

Quote:Anyways, if I may say, if you two have a platonic friendship and broke up on good terms, why not just ask her if it would be alright to date her friend? Seems like you all are on good terms. Well, just for the sake of detail, we never broke up because we were never together in a relationship. We just slept with each other a few times.I did ask how she would feel if I dated her best friend. Her verbal response was, "It would be weird at first, but I think I'd get over it." Her actions and body language seem to be saying, "I would be very unhappy if you were with my best friend because YOU ARE MINE!" Seriously, if she's at my house and another girl comes over to see me, it's like she hisses, "how dare you invade my territory!". lol. Then, as soon as the other girl is gone, she's back in my lap asking me to play with her hair and I'm just like, "aww, what a nice kitty."

Haha, I hope to be sticking around for a while. The last I remember, there were a lot of people getting offended and/or attacked. People were hesitating to post because they were worried that they would become the next target. So, I just kind of stopped visiting. Plus '08 was somewhat of a shitty year financially. I had 2 surgeries, my air conditioner broke in the summer, and my well dried up in the fall. $5000 here, $5000 there. It was killing me. So I started up a temporary in home business that got me through the rough times.

You did well to start up a successful business!I'm sorry to hear about the surgeries.

Haha, thanks. It serves me well with extra money. My job pays for everything else, but if there were ever an emergency I would have been screwed. If it weren't for the connections I have in my community and the knowledge of a trade skill... I think the repo man would have visited with repo intentions. lol.I'm glad to see your still around Ineligible. This may be old news, but where did Helmsman his lovely lady nurse and Diver disappear to?

Helmsman eventually got fed up and left, insisting all his posts be wiped. Diver is now very busy with his job and volunteer work and hasn't been here for a long time, unfortunately.

Helms really had a lot of info on here that would have done so much for those searching for answers... but at the same time I do not disagree with his decision. He's probably sailing around enjoying the company of his lady friend. raises a glass of water to the new and old! Let's face it, water is so much better for you anyways. (:

Quote:Diver disappear to? Diver is a home director of two homes and watches over 3 men with mental disabilities. One has to stay in his bed and another (different home) is a skitsoprinic.His dad is in bad heath and his mom lost her job and want keep on top of her diabetes - so they both need him a lot. His cat tubes is getting really old and has had a few visits to the vet. And Diver is on meds for an ulcer.

What up CR! It's been a while buddy. Next time you talk to Diver, let him know I said hi. Does he have stomach or intestinal ulcers?