This post isnt really about a current relationship but its about a past girlfriend and i wasn't sure where to post it.
Bascially i am still quite down after finishing with my first girlfriend (which is just over 3 years ago). She was the girl i lost my virginity to and she was so beutiful and brilliant and i was really happy.
The relationship wasnt the best because she had depression and it was quite hard work, but she was my first and i was happy. But she finished it all because she had depression and she wanted to be on her own. I was obviously upset but i made the mistake of keeping in touch and we would talk for ages on the internet pretty much every day. Then after 6-7months she started to go out again and she told me she slept with 1 or 2 guys which broke my heart (even though i was with another girl at the time) and a couple of months after that she met her boyfriend.
And ever since then i stopped talking to her but i still think about her everyday and it hurts to think shes with someone else and someone else is having sex with her. i get quite down about it and i cant stop thinking about her, and its making me very unhappy.
Is this natural to take this long to get over a girl? i have never loved anybody since and i feel i need to love someone in order to get over her? Even if i seen her from a distance it would depress me now and make me think about her even more.
Do i need help or is this normal?
Thanks for listning.