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Isis

A girl who gets off to porn? is that not normal

Mkay, well im a bit confused right now. you see i really like watching porn while i masterbate, mostly it makes me think of my boyfriend and i, but anyway im not sure if thats ok or not. i mean u expect boys to be all into porn, but girls -not so much - & its become quite a habit and im worried its a bad one.

unfortunately its become harder for me to orgasm when im not watching porn, like i can orgasm in less than a minute if im watching a good scean. and the last two times iv had sex with my boyfriend i have had a hard time even getting/ staying wet as well as orgasming (i was turned on but my body wasnt reacting). my boyfriend thinks its hott that i watch porn while i touch myself and suggested that we make one we can watch or just watch one on DVD while we are are haveing sex...

i think that would be fun, but honestly the fact that its getting difficult for me to even get wet, let alone orgasm without the porn is makeing me seriously consider quiting watching cold turky. up until these last 2 times haveing sex (today and yesterday) im usually like a friggin waterfall. so it struck me as odd that at 19 i would be haveing a hard time staying wet durring really really great sex.

i guess my question is, is it weird that i like porn? its not like im lonely or despraite or anything, its just really sexy to me to hear sex more than anything like the moaning and actual sounds of sex...it sounds creepy to me when i say it to myself... my other question is should i stop watching because now its harder to cum / get & stay wet? maybe im jumping the gun because its only been this weekend that its been an issue.

i would really apresiate some input here, im feeling kinda like a pervert for being a girl who actually gets off to porn, and its makeing it a hell of alot worse that iv had to depend on ky for my love makeing, considering im in my prime one would think i could bring rain to the sahara...

any input at all would be very apresiated :scream_cat: thank you
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saya25

I like watching porn while I masturbate as well.........I think its normal. I do it very often and I am also kinda addicted to it. I do have problems getting wet when I am with my bf I hope someone comes up with a solution for this cos it may help me out too.
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OldFolks

It's a myth of society that women don't watch porn. Much like the older myth that women didn't masturbate. Don't by into such societally repressive bullshit.
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thor

I little oral goes a long way to solving the wetness issue.
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Dantek

while thats true, and i would also think its hot if my girlfriend did. it does seem to be causing a problem that should be addressed.

to the OP: how often do you watch porn while you masturbate?
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a bit of background:recently there has been a change in the frequency of our love makeing. we've been together for almost 3 1/2 years and have been haveing realy great sex on a regular basis (2 times a week minimun usually)for the last 2 1/2 of those years....that is up until my boyfriend got into a car accident. he got a pretty bad cuncusion and stitches, and after the wreck his sex drive flew out the window. for about 3 months he was barely interested. it was ok to begin with & i figured that maybe it was do to the knock on the head and would get better. anyways we went from regular sex (& not just sex, he also acted interested, like would call me sexy or wisper something he wanted to do to me in my ear twice as much as we actually had sex) to maybe basic sex 3x a month, with all of the enthusiasm of a wet towel and no seductive talk on his part at all. to make it worse he wasnt receptive to any sexy talk comeing from me, like id make a suggestion and he would make it clear that he wasnt in the mood. which honestly was quite confusing/ frustratingthe odd thing was that the lack of sex drive seemed to have nothing to do with his feeling for me at all. He wanted to be with me constantly, wanted to cuddle and would tell me how awsome i am and how much he loves me and how he wants to get married and have kids. he obviously didnt fall out of love with me or deside he was no longer interesed in being with me. anyways the sexual frustration finally got the better of me and i resorted to regularly masterbateing and watching porn....now that about 3 months has gone by since his wreck his sex drive has come back with a vengance (thank goodness ) but now its hard to get my body to react to him like it did 3 months ago, i am desprately hopeing its not a permanate handicap, i would much rather have hott passionate sex than to just watch it. a quick question on the accident/cuncusion = no sex drive thing, has anyone else experienced this? do you think it was just a fluke or was it probably acctualy do to the wreck? Quote:to the OP: how often do you watch porn while you masturbate? well, the only time i dont watch porn while i masterbate is when im in the shower. so i guess that would average out to being at least 3-4 times a week with the porn for the last month or so. usually it will be like a 2 hour thing after i get home from work and everyone is asleep.should i stop watching...or limit myself down significantly?thanks again for all responces
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readytogo

Quote:a quick question on the accident/cuncusion = no sex drive thing, has anyone else experienced this? do you think it was just a fluke or was it probably acctualy do to the wreck? Serious trauma to the body can temporarily diminish sex drive. Maybe something to do with the body needing all of it's strength to heal itself.Have you changed anything? Diet? Medication?
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OldFolks

Lay off the masturbation for a while and get yourself extra good and horny for the next encounter with him and see if things are any different.Maybe what your experiencing is akin to men who've spent a lot of time jackin and get used to the feel of their own hand and then have trouble getting off. More often than not the cure is getting reacquainted with what the real thing feels like and avoiding masturbation for a little while.
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thor

Lay off the porn immediately. If you must masterbate (like while in the shower, for example), fantasize about your BF. Things won't get better right away...but they will get better in time. Until then, as I said: oral should go a along way to solving the problem.
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Dantek

likw the other two said, lay off the masturbating as much as you can, if you dont already, you could try having him touch you more often, as in him masturbating you. that might help you get back in the swing.and kudos to you for being so patient you should be proud.
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