DO NOT READ THIS IF YOU HAVE A PROBLEM WITH SWEARING!!!!!!!!I'm about to throw the towel in on this relationship.This is my first actual labeled(bf/gf) relationship but I've been mixed up with a bunch of different ladies which usually are just straight up friends w/ benefits and the reason I wasn't their BF was 'cause they had boyfriends I met her 4/mo ago and axed her out a /mo in so we've been goin' out for 3/mo.It was all good until 2 n a bit months and then she started not really goin' to school(she doesn't go to a public school, moreso a school she can go to at any givin' time during the weekdays before 5pm and get work, but TECHNICALLY is supposed to show up for a few hrs a day to make sure shits gettin' done) and at this time she also had to start cleaning her house 'cause they're sellin' it and yeah, I guess between cleaning, work n school she didn't have time for me even though school wasn't taking place. When we did agree to hang out it'd somehow be canceled on her end and blah blah blah. We hung out 2 times between early feb and the 26th which is our anni.On the 26th we were supposed to hang out but...fuck yeah just what I've always wanted! a girlfriend that changes her fucking mind every 10 minutes. No, we didn't hang out. The 27th rolls around and she's like " K i'll be ready around 11 but we're comin' back here after 1 cuz thats when the potential buyers are gone " and I go ok....when I picked her up, and until 12:30 she was completely distant, acting pretty fuckin' anti-everything and I just left my bedroom for awhile, came back and was like " I'm not comin' over anymore. I'll just drop you off " and she didn't even care, she's like why and I go "because you don't seem like you wanna hang out" and she just shrugs it off. 1:30 rolls around I drive her home and peace out. ...now that I think about it, the only reason she even woke up @ 10, got ready and I went and picked her up @ 11 was 'cause she had no choice but to find something to do 'cause people were going to look at purchasing the house. Normally she's up at Noon, and takes 50% of the day to get ready/do anything with her shit.Anyhow between leaving my house, and dropping her off I said I love you twice, both kinda mumbled...but I'm sure loud enough if you didn't understand it you'd ask "what?" but she never said anything both times so I throw her a text after dropping her off "So you just not hear me say I love you twice or what?" and she goes "idk" and I ask "You don't know if you heard me or you don't know if you love me?" and she says IDK again and I'm about to fuckin' flip and go "how don't you know?" and she goes " I just don't have the same feelings for you anymore " and I ask her what she means by that and DON'T tell me you don't know cause you know your own feelings and she texts me back 2 hrs later "the feelings just aren't the same" and I'm like " k we're done here then " and she goes " I guess so as much as i hate myself " and I delete the 3 numbers leaving me in contact w/ her, delete any messages ever existing between the two of us and did a pretty good job of removing her from my life.Half an hour later she sends me a text " ;( " and I ignore it. Half/hr after that she sends me another text " insert my name I made a huge fucking mistake " and I ignored that as well. Get home later in the night and see on MSN she left me a message in between the two texts "I don't know if what I did was right"So I go outside and puff a doob and call her and ask her how she was feeling and she goes " Idk " lol, I'm laughing to myself right now on the phone asking myself how the fuck don't you know...anyways I go " So you don't know if you're feeling better worse or the same and she goes " I'm feeling alright " and I go " So what'd you think was going to happen by you telling me you made a mistake? " and she goes "idk i realized i'm retarded" so I'm like "well you wanna give it another shot?" and she goes yes.That's the end of the conversation, I say goodnight. The next day we were supposed to hang out but..yea no we don't. I forget why we didn't but we didn't. The day after that we were supposed to hang out but..yeah we don't. Shit eh?IDK where we're at on the next day dates as of now....so I'll just say what happened latest:We were supposed to hang out in the afternoon(so I'm thinking like 3-4....5 at the very latest considering she worked at 7) well anyways we exchange good mornings and shit then around 3 I'm like " we still hangin out? " and she goes "idk I'm feeling kinda grouchy" so I go " whatever " and she says how she can't control that time of the month and I'm like ya 'cause it mattered the last 2 months and she goes "Well on the first day i get cramps" so I go " what ever, whats the difference laying at home or at my house chillin for a bit " and what ever and she goes " Alright we'll hang for a bit ".....So like 5 rolls around I'm like " don't worry about hangin' out I'll just drive you to work because that's all you prolly want " and she goes " wth i wanna hang out with you "....faaaaak6:15 rolls around and she's ready. She works at 7 so I go and pick her up, rip over to a coffee station and sit her down and I ask her if she has any idea why we're here and she goes nope.I go because we never hang out and hardly talk and you don't tell me shit. Let's take today for example....You woke up and texted me at like, 12? You never bothered to send me a text tellin' me you felt like shit or no we weren't hangin' out. So here's me.....assuming I didn't forget about you and stayed at home which wasn't the case, 'cause I did go out and handle my daily errands....sitting at home waiting for you to hang out with me " In the afternoon " which I expect to be 3-4, 5 at the latest and she's like "It's not that I don't want to hang out with you, it's I've been living in a hole for 3 weeks and haven't cared about myself to do anything" so I respond w/"What was a couple days ago then? Do you have feelings for me? I have tons of feelings for you. I like you, alot. I loved(maybe she picked up on the ed, idk..but it wasn't an I love you) you but I don't wanna be wasting my fuckin' time. What happened when another boy comes along and you have more feelings for him than you do me because you just met him? What happens to me? I just wasted my time is what happens" and she goes "insert my name I have alot of feelings for you and I don't know what was a couple days ago, I couldn't think and I'm a retard but today has been the only day in awhile that I've actually cared to make myself look good and feel good." I go " so the only reason you haven't been yourself for 3wks is 'cause you're living in a hole? " and she goes yes...and I'm like " can you promise me you're not just gunna leave me when another boy rolls along that you have feelings for? " and she goes yaSo I get up and we leave the coffee shop and I drive her to work. When she got off work I asked her if she wanted to hang out and she's like yeahSo this prolly woulda been yesterday and we were supposed to hang out @ 6 and around 12 I'm like " So you go to school today? " and she goes no(In the back o my head I'm just like k so we're not hangin out, I just figured it out for myself because I know her dad will ground her for not going to school) and around 4 I'm like " we still hangin'? " and she goes " well apparently I'm grounded but he usually doesn't follow through with groundings "Right now I'm fuckin' just steamin to myself thinking are you serious? I've known you 4 months and seen your dad 3 times and it seems I know him better than you do. Of course he fucking grounds you if you don't go to school and of course we're not hangin' out. what the fuck else is newLater that night rolls around and she rings me up and I pick it up, " Yo hollachaboi" (no not really but I do sometimes!) and we're talkin' and I'm like " so you didn't know your dad would ground you for not goin' to school ? " and she goes " no actually I didn't " meanwhile I'm thinkin'..if I fuckin' know you you knew for sure. Anyways. Call it a night I don't even bother askin' her when we're hangin' out next 'cause I don't have time to be fuckin' lied to.....and then today I axe her if she went to school and she's like no i'm just gunna stay home and do my work...blah blah, yes her dad will let her out if she at least does work for the day.....But it's like 2:30 now and she hasn't showered + isn't even done something that takes 45 minutes to write up. 5 o clock rolls around and she's still not done it nor showered. But that's ok....I didn't even plan on hanging out with her today.So the way I see how today went was she woke up around noon, went on the computer, lazed around for a bit, drew up a rough copy of something, lazed around a bit, no shower taken, and it's 8pm.The way I see it COULD have been done if she actually gave a fuck about me:Wake up around noon and don't go on MSN or any of that shit to distract her, write down some lyricual shit for this essay, pop in the shower, pop out, pop some make up on and come n hang out.....haha, only I wish. Easier said than done...Then I ask her when she thinks we'll be hangin' out and she goes idk.Meanwhile I'm lookin' at the Calender and for the next 2 weeks, throwin in some assumptions, both our work schedules and how fuckin lazy she is....we won't be hangin' out.Actually, shit, I can look way more ahead than 2 weeks from now and think the same thing.Do I nail'er n hit the road, puff a doobie and find a new girl?Or do I actually take her word for it that all this shit is legit and eventually we'll be hangin' out erryday like we fuckin' used to?It wouldn't even phase me to just throw the towel in that way I don't have to deal with her shit....But at the same time IDK if I should give it a bit longer??? A2A, what I does??Edit: She'll be 17 mid-way thru this yr and apparently she'd had 15 boyfriends? A lot of them were 2-weeker-grade-8 relationships(she didn't even make out w/ a lot of 'em) and she said a few were a couple months a piece and her longest one was 7/mo. She never slept w/ any of'em(or so she says) and she's still relatively good friends w/ the one she went out w/ for 7/mo and they broke up 'cause he moved. I asked her if she'd ever get back together with him and she said fuck no.and she had a fling with a 22 or 23yr old or somethin'. I'm not sure if she's used or not as far as I know I popped her cherry....How any of this is relevant to this? Who knows
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So really? Its that easy? Just throw the towel in?
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It is ask not axe.End it.
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I'm trying not to get irate at your grammar and sentence construction - sorry. Is it really easier to type hangin' instead of hanging?Anyway, you seem to have a bit of a strange outlook on her. "is she used?" is a bit of a horribly worded question.Doesn't sound like you have a lot of respect for her.In any case, she sounds like one of my exes. Says she'll do something then doesn't...only the excuse my ex made was "couldn't be bothered"!I say move on. You don't need her anymore. She sounds lazy.
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She's not worth it. If she wont put the effort into her own life, how's she gonna put effort into this relationship? She doesn't sound like she's about to change, and you don't sound happy, so leave her and move on, you don't need this crap.
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Originally Posted By: Ej4It is ask not axe. Thats as far as I got in reading the OP, I saw axed, said fuck this bullshit and skipped down for a summary from someone who can speak and write english.Having seen that this was the first response... Ill read no further.If you can not use fucking real words with real meanings, I can not bother to take the time to read the shit you spurt forth from your fingers and mouth.
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Originally Posted By: Grvtykllr Originally Posted By: Ej4It is ask not axe. Thats as far as I got in reading the OP, I saw axed, said fuck this bullshit and skipped down for a summary from someone who can speak and write english.Having seen that this was the first response... Ill read no further.If you can not use fucking real words with real meanings, I can not bother to take the time to read the shit you spurt forth from your fingers and mouth. Then don't fucking read it. No ones got a gun to your head moron.Go watch a fucking mobster movie, THEN come back and talk to me.I didn't write AXE because I didn't know it's spelled ASK. I spelled axe because that's the pronunciation of it in a gang movie. Goodfellas, Casino, etc. + it's the fucking internet, why are you two being so critical? MY grammar, pronunciation, and punctuation should be the least of your worries considering there's people who post you can't even understand.Holy hell. Some peoples kids. Wowee.
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lol!I think the question is more likely to be "Why are you writing as if you are in a 'gang movie' in the first place? What's wrong with writing in regular English, so that everyone can understand what you're saying?"To the people who don't watch 'gang movies', it sounds like you injured your girlfriend with a weapon, rather than asking her something. Tailor to your audience.
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Originally Posted By: sadbuttruelol!I think the question is more likely to be "Why are you writing as if you are in a 'gang movie' in the first place? What's wrong with writing in regular English, so that everyone can understand what you're saying?"To the people who don't watch 'gang movies', it sounds like you injured your girlfriend with a weapon, rather than asking her something. Tailor to your audience. I suppose it makes a bit more sense on a level headed response. lol.....Yeah, I could fix it...but...is it REALLY that hard to read over it? Regardless of situation?
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Moron? yeah your real fucking tough over the net hiding behind a screen in a house fuck only knows where.Its too hard to read because I have a big problem with people to fucking stupid to write english instead of bullshit text talk or fucking gang bang bullshit.Anyone that talked to me that way in person, Id put in the fucking hospital, Keep talking shit like your tough, your a fucking chickenshit little bitch, that adopts tough guy talk to make up for a lack of balls. I did read about if you get a sex change from a woman to a man they often use Teflon nuts to fill a sack to give the appearance of having balls, maybe you can invest in some of those so you have a pair of your own.Go ahead, hold a gun to my head, see what would happen to you, you wouldnt be the first one fucking stupid enough to pull one on me, the last mother fucker didn't fare so well, see what your odds are, Im in Utah, get with in a hundred fucking miles of Salt Lake city, give me a call, Id be more than happy to make a drive to beat you like a rented fucking mule. cockrocker indeed, you got eh prong part, but no balls.
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Originally Posted By: GrvtykllrMoron? yeah your real fucking tough over the net hiding behind a screen in a house fuck only knows where.Its too hard to read because I have a big problem with people to fucking stupid to write english instead of bullshit text talk or fucking gang bang bullshit.Anyone that talked to me that way in person, Id put in the fucking hospital, Keep talking shit like your tough, your a fucking chickenshit little bitch, that adopts tough guy talk to make up for a lack of balls. I did read about if you get a sex change from a woman to a man they often use Teflon nuts to fill a sack to give the appearance of having balls, maybe you can invest in some of those so you have a pair of your own.Go ahead, hold a gun to my head, see what would happen to you, you wouldnt be the first one fucking stupid enough to pull one on me, the last mother fucker didn't fare so well, see what your odds are, Im in Utah, get with in a hundred fucking miles of Salt Lake city, give me a call, Id be more than happy to make a drive to beat you like a rented fucking mule. cockrocker indeed, you got eh prong part, but no balls. It's unfortunate that you get so angry over letters on a computer screen.I'm not some fuckin' tough guy on the internet. I'm not going to go near Salt Lake City in my life, and if I did, or KNEW I was going, I wouldn't mention shit because I don't need to get punched out and potentially have my life fucked up just because I said " axe " instead of " ask " on a forum. There's more to life than just what YOU want buddy.
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actually if your gonna talk, then get it right in your head,Me beat your ass? you betcha, but not for saying axe. For the response you gave me, not for the original words.Keep in mind a few of my friends I got into a fight with then got to know them after. Why does everyone these days think fights are so fucking bad?everyone needs a fucking gun or a knife or a weapon, what happened to the days when you could knock the dog shit out of someone then have a beer after and end up buddies?lastly, its my life, all of my life does revolve around what I want.
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Originally Posted By: Grvtykllractually if your gonna talk, then get it right in your head,Me beat your ass? you betcha, but not for saying axe. For the response you gave me, not for the original words.Keep in mind a few of my friends I got into a fight with then got to know them after. Why does everyone these days think fights are so fucking bad?everyone needs a fucking gun or a knife or a weapon, what happened to the days when you could knock the dog shit out of someone then have a beer after and end up buddies?lastly, its my life, all of my life does revolve around what I want. I don't have a problem with fighting.I think it's great and was a great way to solve things back in the day when respect was king.I knocked someone out in Elementary school and just met up w/ him 2/mo ago and had a few drinks at a party I was at....Granted it was years later, not right after it.