Ok, in my topic My Mistake? I described how a drunken night led to me cheating on my girlfriend. The advice that I got was to end the relationship as it is obviously not a healthy one, which I sadly agree with. The question is, how?We've been together for over a year, lived together briefly, see each other and talk nearly every day. The L bomb has been dropped frequently by both of us. She works in my college so after the break up we will still have to interact on a regular basis which will be very awkward. She doesn't have a lot of friends so our relationship is a massive part of her social life, often going out with my friends more than her own.I really do care about her so even though I know the relationship has to end, I feel physically sick at the thought of hurting her. So, any advice?
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Ending a relationship
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I don't agree at all with the view that cheating on someone once when drunk means the relationship cannot continue. If you believe the relationship is not healthy for other reasons, that's a different matter.
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Natasha pretty much summed up everything I would say so just reread her post.I will re-emphasize that there is no need in rubbing her nose in the fact that you boinked some one else while you all where still together. Just tell her how you feel but with a lot of tact added in.
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I almost did it again today... I actually do feel bad now. Drunken mistake is one thing, but...
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Nat? I need to talk to you about something. Sent you a PM.
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what happened?