My boyfriend and I have been going out about two months, and the last intimate moment we shared was a couple weeks ago when I asked him if he wanted to get cleaned up with me in the shower. While we both enjoy our sexual life, it was more intimate than anything. Although we have both been horny, we never seem to find the time to spend together due to our busy lives. We're both seventeen (I've never had a boyfriend before him, or had sex) and his parents are very strict, keeping a very close watch on him. What would be a good, quick, and easy sexual/intimate activity for two busy teenagers to share. (preferably without sex of any sort, I'd like to wait a little longer - everything else goes)Ps. The shower is definately recommended, but I was terrified the whole time that my mother may come home. -maybalee
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Fun in the shower
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Maybe just sitting outside with him, or taking a walk with him, something like that? If you want intimate, like no-clothes-real-close intimate, I'm not sure I could help with that.
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I don't know that intimate moments such as that are successful when they're contrived. I think it's something that just kinda has to happen of it's own accord.
That doesn't mean you can't help it along. Set aside some time to be alone together and let what happens happen. Don't fall into the trap of planning everything that's as sure away as any to kill intimacy. Just allow it time and let the situation take care of itself.
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Fun in the shower has always been one of my favorite things to due,if sex is most likely NOT to be included, I love watching the sun set over the water. I used to live in Califonia and every night, well I mean whenever we could we would snuggle on the porch and watch the sunset ove the waves rolling in. As long as I can spend good quality time alone with my partner, then nothing else mattered...Is that what you mean? or were you still thinking about walking into the public library and go into the rare book room and sit on his lap an have sex while it looks like you're both sharing a book read or give each other oral sex without getting caught...Public sex.... That's a super turn-on rush for me!hope this helps
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Actually taking a shower (or bath) with my fiancé is something we do when we can. Quote: What would be a good, quick, and easy sexual/intimate activity for two busy teenagers to share. For us it’s not really quick, but you could make it I guess. We wash each other’s hair or just soak in a bubble bath. Quote: I was terrified the whole time that my mother may come home. it happens. Wasn’t too long ago we got busted by her mom. No one was home so we decided to take a bubble bath and just relax. She didn’t have enough bubble do even bother attempting but we tried. We ended up just laying in nice warn/hot water. And washing each other’s hair. Her mom came in not realizing I was there. Quote: don't know that intimate moments such as that are successful when they're contrived. I think it's something that just kinda has to happen of it's own accord.Yea. One winter it was pretty cold and we were sharing a chair wrapped in a blanket. We were quietly talking about horses and just stuff.. And then we realized a deer was in my yard eating (it was at night) so we stopped talking and just sat there watching the deer eat. Usually I wouldn’t think of watching a deer to be intimate but it just happened to work out that way.
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What are you thinking? That'd defile the books! sob You get to have big libraries with rare book rooms. pouts
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You reminded me of one of the most intimate times I've had with my wife.
We were driving to New Orleans and we spent the night at Nottoway. Other than the guy we had traveling with us we had the whole place to ourselves. It was night and we were tired and it was storming and we we in our jammies sitting on the upper porch watch the storm rage and the river boats and barges go buy. It had been hot that day and the storm had brought in plenty of cool air and it was raining and blowing to beat hell but the porch was big enough we didn't get wet and we just set there and went to sleep holding hands... it was great.
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"Yea. One winter it was pretty cold and we were sharing a chair wrapped in a blanket. We were quietly talking about horses and just stuff.. And then we realized a deer was in my yard eating (it was at night) so we stopped talking and just sat there watching the deer eat. Usually I wouldn’t think of watching a deer to be intimate but it just happened to work out that way. "Why the hell not? its not what your doing, but how you feel.I have had moments like that with Julie, a big bull moose walking in on us fishing the river, a deer that was at least 30" wide and nearly that tall (horns)that came to our fire one night camping. Some pelicans that landed in front of us on the lake we used to live on one afternoon while we were standing there letting the little one feed some ducks. a massive lightning storm last fall while we huddled in a tent at about 11 thousand feet, rain falling so hard that it hitting the tent we couldnt hear each other even if we yelled and thunder rolling down the mountain that drowned out the sound of the rain, just laying on the ground in our sleeping bags inside the tent listening.Those moments are not defined by what your doing but by who your with and how you feel.intimate does not have to be stabbing her with the pork sword, its a state of mind.Hell we had intimate moments in our new house just a week ago having a picnic on the front room floor (furniture only arrived an hour ago! no more eating on the damned floor or in bed!)with walls wet with paint.I actually find those moments to be better than the ones where I am pumping her up like a flat rabbit.
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>>>"pumping her up like a flat rabbit"
Your turn of expression alway inspires me. :sunglasses:
