we have been going out now for almost 2 years. we have been having sex for a year now very ofter. she always say how great i am and i always manage to make her come once if not twice either by penetration or just using my hand.however, my gf is terrible at doin likewise for me. during sex she makes odd, un-cooperative movments and is terrible and oral sex. i have never come from her giving me a blowjob after 10 months of her doing it. (we had sex before she gave me her first bj).she admited that she thought she was doing it wrong and i printed off some stuff off the net on how to coz she asked me to. she has got a bit better after reading it but still not made me come. i would tell her what i like but i dont know what that is as she is my 1st gf. no matter what she does it doesn't feel of much unlike sex which feels great.has anyone got any tips/ methods/advice which i could use?
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My gf cannot give a bj
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i never come from my gf giving me bj either mate, don't worry!i enjoy it, yeah, but we both would rather have full sex
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i enjoy it too, to quite nice, its just my gf worries about me not coming coz she reckons shes doing it wrong.
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Is she really that bad? Have her watch a Jenna Jamison BJ and have her try to imitate it on you.
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i don't have any porn. and my gf wouldn't be interested in watching it if i did. she found a site of sexual positions and got all grossed out coz it was pictures of people doing them.
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Honestly, BJs just might not be your thing. Plenty of guys (if not the vast majority) prefer vaginal sex. It just feels better, and you can thrust all the way in. I would experiment and maybe buy a book or two, but don't worry if oral is never as good as vaginal.
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Yeah, many times on this forum, guys complain about not being able to orgasm or cum during oral sex, but that's just how you were made, you might just enjoy vaginal sex better. Anyway, if you want to try to have better oral sex, then tell her what really turns you on during it.
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Some birds are useless at it. best get yourself a prostitute. Job done then.let teh good times roll!
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yeah,if birds dont do the trick try a cat or dog?and to answer the post,i've never come off a bj.so i now view it as pure hot foreplay.
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i tell my gf to use her tongue A LOT. i got an idea for you...go find/download a porn movie with an japanese girl in it and watch how she does it. its usually very visual (if not censored) and feels good (well some of them). thats what i did and my gf does it very well! this may only work for some tho as i dont know how you like it...
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I have never gotten to the point of a guy cuming with a bj. Usually we just end up with good old fashion sex. She might not really be wanting to do it. This would reflect on performance. It sounds like she's doing it because she wants to make you happy too. And for the sex positions, u get on top. You have more control. If she still does irregular movements tell her to follow your lead. When a girl is on bottom, theres not much for her to do. And the movements might be her moving so it's more pleasurable for her.
