Cumming

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alright, i'll get right to iti'm nineteen year old male, been with a few girls over the yearshowever, for some reason i am unable to cum inside them.i've only ever came inside one girl and its annoying.like, last night i was fucking this girl and she as major hotbut i never came. what could this be?i know it's not a physical problem because i've done it beforemaybe its physcological, i don't know or maybe i'm not fucking long enough.help

It may well be psychological. You've mentioned before that you can be a worrier, and worrying that you won't cum can tend to hold it back. Also I find that stress and tiredness/lack of sleep keep me from ejaculating, and in some previous posts you seemed to be stressed and losing sleep because of work.

tbh i do worry about it and when i was fucking the other night i found myself thinking "fuck, gotta cum" and it never happened.how do i combat this?

enjoy your time with her. don't worry about if you do or not, just be happy.
don't think about it. :smile:

You can combat it by not expecting to cum. Then you won't worry about it, and eventually it will happen (not necessarily on the first time). Also, try to make sure you get adequate sleep.

Me and my gf often have what maybe you'd call real relaxed sex where I'm lying on my back and she's sorta sitting on me with me inside her, and we just have a nice relaxed conversation. We mnigt talk about lots of stuff, just maybe rocking back and forth a little bit and enjoying the feeling and te closeness. I guess what I'm saying is that we're not at all concentrating on the sex any more thn if we were in a park walking and talking and holding hands. We would not be concentrating on the "holding hands" part.Then after a while, either me or both of us will start getting so sensitive that we both want to start going faster and harder, and then we let it finish. But we don't rush it. we might take an hour sometimes just relaxing anddoing it this way. So my advice is to just put your bodies together and then sorta forget about what's going on "down there", and just enjoy it! (See what happens!)

We haven't done that in long time (my wife and I, not you and I :grin:). It was so nice.