So the other night I was with a girl that I'm seeing and we were about to have sex and my penis suddenly went flaccid. I was hard while we were making out and I was fingering her but as soon as I tried to put the condom on I went soft. I ended up trying to force in my useless, wimpy cock thinking it would get hard once the motion started but no. Afterward we just decided to cuddle and then I got hard again but as soon as I get my dick close enough to her vagina it goes soft.I have no health problems, if I'm masturbating I get hard in like 30 seconds. I think it's anxiety related but I don't know. Afterward I feel really shitty about myself and like I'm not even a man. I didn't even jack off for 8 days straight beforehand but that didn't help.What am I doing wrong? Should I take viagra or use a pump?
Can't Get It Up!
I had drank a little but not so much that it should have been a problem. I smoked pot too. Pot usually increases my sex drive though...She is a new girl who I haven't got to know too well yet and at least she was understanding.I'm 23 is that too young to use Viagra? I kinda don't want to see a doctor because I'm under my parents insurance and I don't want to tell them I have erection problems.
It's all mental.. You're stressing and thinking about it too much.