Okay so as most of you may know I have a girlfriend, she is fifteen going on 16 on the 29th of this month. However there is this other girl, who is in college in the city close to my house, we have been talking online for quite some time and we share a lot of the same interests. and I'm not saying that I want to dump my current girlfriend for her I'm just saying I want to get closer to her and see where that takes us. anyways, yesterday my friend and I got on the train to go to the city where she is located, personally I wasn't really thinking of seeing her, we just went for the hell of it. But we were walking through a park and out of the corner of my eye I saw her, and she saw me. I walked over to her and we had a conversation, now we haven't met officially face to face I just remember her from high school. so we talked about some random things.
Then on our way home I started thinking about my current girlfriend and how long we've been together, and that sort of brought me back to reality. but I also feel like I want to be single right now, I've graduated and everything. I want to hang out with this other girl but my girlfriend would get jealous if I took the train to the city just to visit the other girl. I really care about my girlfriend too, like a lot. and I dont want to hurt her. I also dont want to be the Douche bag who lies to my girlfriend, saying "I'm going down to Philly with my friend" when really I'm by myself and visiting another girl.
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Having some difficult relationship decisions
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You need to sit down and figure out how you really feel about your current relationship. Nothing wrong being friends with the opposite sex, but if you want to see where it goes, that's a clue you're looking for something else.Be honest with yourself and your girlfriend.