I have been living with my best friend for the past year. I'm not going to get into why, because that's a long story and that's not what this post is about. Anyway, I really like his sister, more than any girl I've ever met before. She seems perfec for me. I have been trying to figure out if she has any of the same feelings for me for the past year. I'm starting to come the conclusion, and trying to accept my conclusion, that she does not feel the same way about me. But now that makes me feel depressed and lonely all the time. So, I need to try to get over her. To get over someone, you usually have to just stay away from them and pretty much pretend that they don't exist, right? Well, obviously, that's pretty difficult considering I'm living with her. And, I'm not so sure that I'd want to forget about her. Though she may never have the same feelings for me that I have for her, she's become in some ways like a friend/sister. I don't know how to describe the relationship exactly, but I wouldn't want to just not see her ever again. But, just being around her and thinking that she doesn't like me makes me depressed. And when she's not around me I'm depressed because I'm thinking about her, and I want her to be around me. So, I just need some advice.
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Trying to get over a girl
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Is there a need for double posting? I don't think there's not much you can do seeing you live with her. You gotta move on with you life. Go out and meet new people.
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sorry for the double posting. but it seems not as many people go on the relationship forum. I had that up there for a few days with no reply. I thought I'd get some responses here, and I was right. I got a response in just a few minutes compared to getting no responses in days.
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I saw it before but never responded seeing how I didn't have much to say, sorry. Perhaps others didn't have much either. But I suppose you may get other replies.
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maybe. I actually wasn't expecting many replies, but I thought it was worth a try to put it on here. I guess there's not much advice people can give.
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I think the only answers are a lot of time, or a new girl.
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Carl, have you told her how you feel? Sometimes talking about it can make things easier, though othertimes it can make things harder so you have to weigh that up. but personally i'd talk to her and tell her how i feel and how she makes me feel.Hawk
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thanks for the advice Hawk, but I don't know if I could do that. It could make things really weird between us. I don't know. I'll think about it...