Is he gay?

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How do you know if a guy is gay.

I'm asking cause there's this guy I like but I don't know if he's gay or not.
Like he will just randomy do you know the whole fist pound thing with me but it's not hard it gentle and he looks me in the eyes and he keeps his fist there lingerthan nessasery. Somtimes i will catch him steering at me. But he's been on a date with one girl but he could have any girl in the school. Gosh this is so hard (not a pun) why can't we just were name tags or have a secret hand shake or somthing. Ahgr. I don't want to just walk up to him and be like "are you gay?" I've done it before but he was with a group of people. He gave me a look that I can't describe I think it was shock. But I don't know. I'm probably reading it all wrong and he hates me. And if he is then I'm probably not his type i have acne I'm fat (185:6'3") but my acnes clearing up. He's a little shorter than me like 6'. All muscle and perfect skin. Blonde hair green eyes. I've known him my whole life. This is just to hard.

How do I know if a guys gay or not?

Wait, you've fooled around with him before and you don't know if he's into you or not?Yikes.Well, you didn't mention if you have a relationship with this person or not. I don't mean a romantic relationship but do you talk to him everyday or do you guys hang out?

New guy. Nope have not fooled around with him. YET lol. Ok so maybe not my whole life but for like since 4th or 5th grade at a volleyball camp his mom ran and then after that we talked ounce a year there then ounce a week and now when there's school I see him in band so we talk there but that's about as far as it goes. He could just be playing with my emotions too. That would hurt but it's not the first time some ones done that. And when he looks at me he may be trying to figure out me in general. I'm smart but an air head. Like my youth group tried the while not sayig like game and I lost twice both within 5 mind of starting. Ok stay on track. So how do I know or what steps can I take to get him to ask me out. Or somthing I jus gotta know.

I agree with Star.Maybe too, you could look for hints, like you have been. Maybe if you go out as a group again, you could subtly pull him away for a a sec, and see what happens.Alright, here's what I say. Usually guys aren't the ones to play with other guys emotions, it's usually the girls they do. That's my first tip-off. And he may be trying to figure you out, you never know, could be in general, could not be. As far as asking him out goes, if you can muster it, I say just pull him away and do it. It'll be awkward for a little bit, but it'll be okay. Or just ask, hey wanna go get something to eat? It won't be a date, but just friends, (etc...he doesn't have to know, lol).

I could try.

Quote:New guy. Nope have not fooled around with him. YET lolWhat the hell? Then why did you say... Originally Posted By: deekLike he will just randomy do you know the whole fist pound thing with me but it's not hard it gentle and he looks me in the eyes and he keeps his fist there lingerthan nessasery. Somtimes i will catch him steering at me.Please, if that wasn't true then don't fill your posts with BS.

I think he meant the Punch me punch you game, or when you fake-box. Not like romantic fooling around.

I guess, who knows.Deek speaks in a language I don't understand. I just wish he typed better English so there wouldn't be such stupid confusion. EDIT: So, I'm sorry for misunderstanding, and thanks for clearning that up. But that could so be easily treated if people put some more intelligence in their typing.

Yea the pound it thing. Fist tap. Not that I'm not a slut (completely I'm done with one night stands). I'm also using an iPod touch. Not an actual computer.

No wait! Nevermind, I just realized I'm just a pervert, lol!

Alright, so now that that's cleared up, I have no more ideas at them moment. Star? Whatchu say?
(You're probably typing now...:grin:)

>>WTF? I knew that a LOOONG time ago!

Lol

Yeah, I'm sorry Deek. I'm just having a blonde moment (no offense to blondes!). I've been on the computer all day and it's frying my brain. My eyes are dying and I'm becoming more and more dyslexic. My deepest apologies! And I'm a horrible pervert.

We all already new that lol

Well then get off the dang computer, and go have some candy!Like I'm any better...

ROFL Virtual! I thought I was perverted but my mind didn't even go there until you said something!! "Fist Pound" Oh lord!! ROFL!

Anywho LoL...

Deek I would just ask him if he wanted to hang out. Go see a movie (there looks to be a lot of good ones that are out and coming out soon), get something to eat.. etc. Doesn't have to be a date, just getting to know each other as friends. I'd be very careful asking someone if they are gay or wanted to go on a date... teen years are very hard and confusing. Just be a friend and get to know him and see what happens.

Like he will just randomy do you know the whole fist pound thing with me but it's not hard it gentle and he looks me in the eyes and he keeps his fist there lingerthan nessasery. OMG.. what an abuse of the English language. When you read this, the message conveyed is completly wrong. I'm guessing English is his worst subject.

I agree makes it hard to read. Some punctuation would make things a lot easier! Though like he said he is using a mobile device to post, so that could be a lot of the issue.

I don't think punctuation is the issue.. It's putting thoughts to words that miss the mark.

Apparently I'm no pervert because I don't a clue what the fuck you all are talking about.