Note: I don't think I'm a psycho ex...my ex is now engaged and I don't even talk to either of them, never have since they started going out either...oh but this girl I'm about to tell you about...let me tell you...Alright, so here's my story. Before I met ex I talked about in my last post whenever that was, I was hanging out with this one guy.He was indeed single then...but he had one of those exes who pretends to be best friends with him, but we know those people's intent are to sabotage relationships and threaten the girl he is with that isn't her.That Psycho Ex of his, they had been broken up since 2005...and when I started talking to her ex, it was in 2007. I knew for a fact they were broken up though, so it wasn't that the dude was lying because he wasn't.I think they had like a non-exclusive thing going on, more so he was using her for sex until something better came along...anyway...her drama just got too much for me and I decided to say that it wasn't worth it. And I stopped talking to that guy that year.Years later, his psycho ex is still on my ass even though she doesn't talk to him anymore either and I can't get this bitch off me to the point where I actually E-mailed her mom that she won't leave me alone!The thing is, I really never did anything to that girl to deserve that kind of treatment from her. She's the one who wouldn't allow herself to get over him because they had been broken up since 2005 and she's even admitted to holding onto something she knew wasn't ever going to be anymore...and yet, she still started this drama with every girl after her in her ex's life. What for?I mean, what would you have done in my situation? I didn't know what else to do, but to email her parents.Ignoring her for months didn't work either because she's still talkin' shit and attempting to start things with me every so often.It got so bad that I wished bad things and death upon her because she wouldn't leave me alone.
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Have you ever dealt with somebody's psycho ex?
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Uh....I would have ignored her and showed no reaction to anything she does. (Yes, it would work....You just sound like you gave in to the ignoring part)^ That will hurt her more than trying to tell her she's a retard who doesn't understand life. If she's calling you, have the number blocked.If she's e-mailing you, have the address blocked.If she's walking up to you in person...Pull out your cell and dial 911. Don't say it as an empty threat. Dial it, no hesitation. It's harassment at that point.
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well i had ignored her from sometime in 2007 until 2008...a whole year completely, and as soon as she started seeing me more frequently (unfortunately we went to the same college for a while and even lived in the same dorm, randomly of course) she began with the drama again...meaning...i'm never off her mind for someone to mess with no matter how long it's been.that's why i said for me like ignoring didn't really work cuz i did ignore her for a whole entire year. and then from 2008 until 2009, she kept it up again. it's so irritating. i don't know why people like drama, it makes my head hurt.i responded back to her with online messages, too...kind of giving her a taste of her own medicine...she said she wanted drama so i blasted her myspace for a while...it was my fault on that, too, so that doesn't make me look good.i thought that if i annoyed her enough with her own drama she wouldn't want drama anymore, but that didn't work either. i give up.
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Just ignore her....It's easier said than done but it's what you need to do.People who like drama will never get fed up. They'll just continue being ignorant fucks.
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Yeah, I definitely am from here on out. It figures her mom wouldn't reply back to me. As long as she knows her daughter is the one who is the slut and not the girls her daughter talks about, I'm fine with that. This girl is the most ignorant, hypocritical, and manipulative person I have ever encountered and I really wish I didn't waste any time on her at all.This isn't offensive when I say she is trash because she is. She hangs out with trash and her attitude makes her even trashier and I really hate myself for allowing that piece of shit to bring me down to her level. =/
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oh by the way, this is what I wrote to her mom. I wonder what a parent would think about her precious kid after reading that, hah.Dear Psycho's Mom (I put Mrs. so-and-so in the real email, lol),I didn't know what else to do with the drama your daughter, Psycho, has decided to annoy my life with.I've tried ignoring her, but nothing ever works. No matter how long it's been, your daughter refuses to leave me alone and refuses to leave my name out of her mouth.She thinks I talk about her all the time to people, but I haven't really. The only times I mention her to any one is when she decides to start things with me again out of the blue.My brother almost died this summer and your daughter thinks I've been spending all of my time talking about her when I haven't...I keep telling her I have more important things to do than make up lies about people like she makes up lies about me.For the past three years, Psycho has been harassing me, stalking me, and talking a world of trash about me. I couldn't ignore it for some time so I responded to her just as bad, which on my part, I wish I never did and continued to try and ignore her.I can't even go to my favorite bar anymore, because Psycho attempts to start things with me almost every time.The thing is, I never even did anything to your daughter at all to deserve this kind of treatment from her.I'm sure you know what happened with her and her ex.In 2007, I had met Psycho's Obsession through one of my good friends and was sort of set up with Psycho's Obsession . Psycho's Obsession was best friends with my friend's then fiancee. Psycho and my friend had a little beef going on then, but I was not so much part of it. Furthermore, Psycho and Psycho's Obsession were not exclusive at all. They had been broken up since 2005, so I don't see why she is always talking badly about girls Psycho's Obsession tries to have relationships or hangs out with after. She thinks by driving all the other girls out of Psycho Obsession's picture they can get back together, but he has never exclusively went back out with her even after people did not want to deal with Psycho's drama anymore.Years later, your daughter is still trying to cause trouble with me, even when I don't talk to Psycho's Obsession at all much anymore (note: neither does she yet, she's still causing drama).I would understand if she found out I was with Psycho's Obsession and they were actually together, but they have been broken up since 2005. And whether she wants to see this or not, she and her obsession had been done long before I ever came into the picture in 2007.I really don't appreciate your daughter calling me a slut when she knows nothing that goes on in my personal life. In fact, she's really one to talk about other people's personal lives when I've heard much worse things about your daughter.Can you please talk with your daughter and have her leave me alone? She keeps telling everyone she wants the drama to end, but I've ignored her for months and she is the one still continuing it.I have other matters in my life I need to deal with.I very much appreciate it.Thank you.And I'm very sorry for bothering you with this trivial nonsense, but I don't know what else to do. Ignoring your daughter doesn't work at all because that's what I have been trying to do and she keeps starting things with me out of the blue after every few months I just can't stand it anymore.
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I called the police last night just to see what I should do if this harrassment continues. The fact that this girl acts like she's gonna do something to me, but never does whenever she sees me no matter how long it's been since the last time she's seen me is extremely annoying. I can kind of ignore it but it's really annoying and I can feel the annoyance. She's not so much threatening as she is annoying.I really hate people who act like they're tough shit but in the end, don't do anything.
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Originally Posted By: aquariusI called the police last night just to see what I should do if this harrassment continues. The fact that this girl acts like she's gonna do something to me, but never does whenever she sees me no matter how long it's been since the last time she's seen me is extremely annoying. I can kind of ignore it but it's really annoying and I can feel the annoyance. She's not so much threatening as she is annoying.I really hate people who act like they're tough shit but in the end, don't do anything. I hate people that act tough motcho shit but can't back it up....But I'm not going to go to jail for assault...I'll let them hit me first.....OR in my mind they'll be known as a bitch and I'd just hope she gets put in the ICU by someone further down the line that couldn't control themselves. Besides...It's much harder to drop this and ignore it....Then continue. She's obviously mentally incapable of understanding what her problem is.