Okay this is much different than the last one I asked a few minutes ago. This one is for the girls, mostly, and everybody else secondly.I have this friend who is really good at having friends who are girls, some of them are romantic interests that he has and some aren't. Basically he's able to connect to girls on an unconditional level. I am kind of jealous of this. I want to have a "Bonnie and Clyde" relationship, but I just can't seem to have a good connection to a girl. I mean granted, I haven't had many friends who are girls and part of it may be that my girlfriend is opposed to it. But I want to know what girls see in guys or want to see in guys both in a friendly manner and romantically.I don't want to be a Playa', just more like Jesse Eisenbergs' character James Brennan in Adventureland
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you've gotta be almost gay about it, don't talk to the girls about guy stuff cos that instantly gives the impression that you want in with them. You need to be more understanding of female issues, ie problems with girlfriends, clothes, etc. This sort of approach will get you friends with the girls, but doing something like having a dirty sense of humour, dressing suitably, or doing something genuinely interesting in the girls eye will generate interest. Having lots of female friends is a different line to follow, with issues such as jealousy i.e your mates will hate you and accuse you of being gay at the same time. I advise you try and get one the female level a bit more but maybe not as extremely at your mate.