This makes it ok... *drool*

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I've come to the conclusion (after watching an insane amount of videos) that... it's ok for women to be objectified in the media... dude... it's totally fine BUT I think women and homosexual men deserve an equal amount of eye candy. I want.. no scratch that.. WE DEMAND half naked men, exposing gorgeous oily chests, a cute butt in a nice pair of jeans, huge biceps nearly ripping out of a small t-shirt ("wifebeaters" shirts are also ok... or preferred.. or just no shirt at all ) and they need to be hott and sexy with visible abs lol. Every color of the friggin rainbow: white, black, yellow, orange, pink, brown, neon. They should have flirtatious type hair ranging from short to long curly or spiked or straight. I want to see them oozing sexiness at every turn. With deep manly voices. Mmm..and cute lips. Movies, tv shows, friggin commercials man.With that said http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6yRtMP78IsUAi! papi chulo es muy caliente http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U_TTbxZt5cEEn las palabras de una mucho loco amiga de dominicana: "daaaamnnn daddy! lookin' like that, I would pick. you. up." lol I actually do enjoy making guys feel uncomfortable by "cat-calling". Like... "ooh I would tap. that. asssss" or "man, yous is fllyyyy can I get ya number"... but... their reactions seem to be more positive rather than offended. Like one guy was actually "OF COURSE! HERE'S MY NUMBER! WANNA GO OUT!".... dude.... I was just playinK I'm done. Sorry for the girly moment. Just thought I'd put that out there for all to... "enjoy" wink wink hint hint lmbo

I agree!fair is fair... but to be more fair, lets also ogle gross, hairy, hideous men and women! After all, those ickies probably need a little attention more than us beautiful people btw, I'm offended by 6-packs... unless they also come with a pizza

Personally he is not my type. Some people mightthink it's raceist, but it's just how my brain is wired. I want an American hottie or a Earopean hottie. I'm not saying that Asians are under Americans and Earopeans, because they aren't, it's just not my type. Now a tall, ripped sweedish guy with an accent. (shiver)example. Hot sweeden Yes, I do agree that we need them, but let's also add a nice big bulge in the shorts area. Lol

wifebeaters.?? ok that’s a new one for me  Quote:I actually do enjoy making guys feel uncomfortable by "cat-calling". Like... "ooh I would tap. that. asssss" or "man, yous is fllyyyy can I get ya number"... I’m surprised you wrote that. as many posts I’ve read of your from you being upset that a guy does that to you and you do it to them... ?????So why do you do it? .. I think eye candy is in the eye of who is looking at the candy. Just in this thread you see what you see as “hot” is not “hot” to another. That is why there is diversity in celebrities / commercials. But it does bring up a good start on something I been wondering about for a ling time. And that is there is obusly people that enjoying looking at their types but what about those “hot” people that everyone seems to like. What is it that makes them so… I dk.. Different? Abi- if you want me too I’ll make a new thread cus I don’t want to take away from your … eye candy chat. But it is in a little way about .whatever. forgive me but wtf is a whifebeater shirt?

Wifebeaters: See here.

Have you SEEN an Axe commercial? Or other misc. deodorant commercials. lolBut I agree. All around.

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I'm surprised you wrote that. as many posts I've read of your from you being upset that a guy does that to you and you do it to them... ?????

So why do you do it? ..
It's called irony, payback, what comes around goes around. If I can't keep them from doing it to me then I have every right to do it right back. Hence why we have an OMG! (objectifying men group) on campus. It's fun. We get to make cat calls at all the hott guys that pass our rooms, classes, or dining halls. lol

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I think eye candy is in the eye of who is looking at the candy. Just in this thread you see what you see as "hot" is not "hot" to another. That is why there is diversity in celebrities / commercials.

lol yes I realize, this post was in good fun, dude. not to be taken seriously at all. a bunch of girls on my floor and the dorm across the courtyard have been spreading these videos around in relation to their "hott asian guys" fever. Like I said, it's all in good fun.

Quote:Have you SEEN an Axe commercial? Dude! There are WAYYYYYYY too many women in those commercials for me to truly appreciate the beauty that is the man. They need to advertise men's underwear with JUST MEN like they do for vicky's secret. They need to have hair commercials with only men. We need more music videos of men dancing than women "dancing" aka shaking their asses. That's what I love about many Asian music videos, if the guy is singing it's mainly focused on his dancing rather than in American videos all the girls are half naked and shaking their behinds in the cam.

Originally Posted By: JapanFan14 Quote:I’m surprised you wrote that. as many posts I’ve read of your from you being upset that a guy does that to you and you do it to them... ?????So why do you do it? .. It's called irony, payback, what comes around goes around. If I can't keep them from doing it to me then I have every right to do it right back. Hence why we have an OMG! (objectifying men group) on campus. It's fun. We get to make cat calls at all the hott guys that pass our rooms, classes, or dining halls. lolIrony comes from the ancient Greek word εἰρωνεία eirōneía, meaning hypocrisy.Abi, you know I love you (and have every intention of fathering your children, making them more nationally diverse than thought possible), but when has two wrongs ever made a right?

Lol, grrr, I'm not Greek! And when I was a lil chicala and was first taught the English language, irony and hypocrisy were two different things. But I guess it kinda makes sense... sorta... I'm an expert on the English language WHOOT WHOOT  Quote:Abi, you know I love you (and have every intention of fathering your children, making them more nationally diverse than thought possible), but when has two wrongs ever made a right?LOL! Ha! Well you know what, being nice hasn't gotten me anywhere since I've been at this college, man. I've had racial slurs thrown at me from every direction, stereotyped and mistreated, insulted for denying sex, isolated for my beliefs, and all the while trying to be nice. I'm not trying to complain, but GRRRRR.... guys get away with being disgusting, offensive, perverts every single day thinking they can say whatever they want and I shouldn't get defensive. So if they can do that, everyday, then I should be able to do the same, no?I mean, it's not like I mean what I say when I'm like "ooh daddy you look good". It's just humor, jokes. I don't really "want them" in the way that I imply. The girls I do that with are just trying to give these guys a taste of (their own medicine) of how we feel when they do the same. And I don't think I should be criticized for doing so. It's like... I am woman.. hear me roar... ROAR! I wonder what the world would be like if it was completely backwards...

never thought it was serious. Could care less about you posting links to “hot” guys. Just curious why you treat guys like you hate being treated, that’s all. I might be the only guy on earth that don’t like being treated like that and I know it. Why Can’t I get upset (I wasn’t until now) I have every right to get upset over women acting like dogs as a woman does when men do it to her.Your only mad at me because I called you out on it… thats it. The entire A2A forum can bitch me out and send threatening PMs .whatever I don’t care. Cus that’s how I see it. Your mad at me cus I called you out on being a dog. I’m being very blunt with you. Take this as what you what… “ I mean, it's not like I mean what I say when I'm like "ooh daddy you look good". It's just humor, jokes. I don't really "want them" in the way that I imply.” That’s called being a tease. He views that as you wanting to fuck him. So don’t cry when he comes up and grabs your ass - or worse. Your in college now not with high school boys. As harsh as it is - I in no way want any guy to or worse you (or any woman / man).My ranting and raving is done. Now I’ll step aside and let you have your fun.

I understand what Abi ment. She's probably saying the same way two straight guys say it, to each other, like "oh daddy I want some of that" lol and probably over dramatizing it. Right?Oh and are you calling her a "bitch," because she's a girl and you are saying that she's acting like a dog. So put two and two together. Lol

Quote:never thought it was serious. Could care less about you posting links to “hot” guys. Just curious why you treat guys like you hate being treated, that’s all. Look at my response to bob. Quote:I might be the only guy on earth that don’t like being treated like that and I know it. Why Can’t I get upset (I wasn’t until now) I have every right to get upset over women acting like dogs as a woman does when men do it to her.Your only mad at me because I called you out on it… thats it. The entire A2A forum can bitch me out and send threatening PMs .whatever I don’t care. Cus that’s how I see it. Your mad at me cus I called you out on being a dog. I’m being very blunt with you. Lol, dude, seriously? Chill. None of what I said was even directed towards you. Nothing that I've been doing on MY campus has anything to do with you let alone has affected you because you're not involved.  Quote:Take this as what you what… “ I mean, it's not like I mean what I say when I'm like "ooh daddy you look good". It's just humor, jokes. I don't really "want them" in the way that I imply.” That’s called being a tease. He views that as you wanting to fuck him. So don’t cry when he comes up and grabs your ass - or worse. Your in college now not with high school boys. As harsh as it is - I in no way want any guy to or worse you (or any woman / man).ummm you totally missed the point, and became really defensive about something that has nothing to do with you at all. and seriously... chill. I don't know why you're taking offense to something that I didn't even mention in your regards. You honestly don't know what I've put up with it and I don't like putting it out there for all to see cause it's my business in the first place. But excuse me for taking action on what I'm fed up with.If you like to view things as "that happens to you .. so what? deal with it? two wrongs don't make a right" then that's you, dude. Not me.

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Oh and are you calling her a "bitch," because she's a girl and you are saying that she's acting like a dog. So put two and two together. Lol YaY! give your self a cookie

So why do you do it? (asked to any woman or man willing to answer).. Was it answered? No.. Did you answer it - yes you did... "It's called irony, payback, what comes around goes around. If I can't keep them from doing it to me then I have every right to do it right back. Hence why we have an OMG! (objectifying men group) on campus. It's fun. We get to make cat calls at all the hott guys that pass our rooms, classes, or dining halls. Lol" why did you create to be personal? Nvm I don't need you to answer.

It was never personal ... not until > lol yes I realize, this post was in good fun, dude......" And everything after.... Plus- I never saw a out lash on "taking something serious" when deek wasn't into your posted link man. Oh yea, he didn't bring up the fact that you hated how guys treated you, but yet you do it to them. And really I was going to brush it off (like I do a lot) but after reading your reply to bob.... Well we know how that went.

I'd love to pick that post apart for you but I'm not in the mood (due to my shoulder not this) but I will say something.... This, "I'm not trying to complain, but GRRRRR.... guys get away with being disgusting, offensive, perverts every single day thinking they can say whatever they want and I shouldn't get defensive. So if they can do that, everyday, then I should be able to do the same> Is exactly why I was surprised by your words.

Yes it bothers me - why you shouldn't lower yourself to behavior you hate to fit in... or whatever real reason. I'm just not buying the - I do it cus they did it to me first. Dam it Abi your better than that and you know it. Stop acting like a bitch (since deek don't want me to call you a dog) Why the hell do you want to be a dog???

Male, female, gay...whatever. Applies to all.

Um what I said was a joke. And most of what I say is. cough cough defenisive cough cough much cough cough

this is really between me and her. Not you two or anyone else.  Quote:Another thing, stop being such a two face. ok. wtf??? nvm.. let me and her work this out or never talk again.

ItOUr was wrong to call Abi a bitch, but, just saying, if they do somthing bad like calling you a dick or a fag. then you can in my personal opinion.

You want to be dragged into this.. So be it.Lol I have no respect for women or men. Lol i am a hypocrite and a whore. Would you like to add drunk, lier, tool, vain, pussy, dog, and asshole to your list of names? you don;t need to i just said i was. Yea! a dick... i forgot that one - thanks deek for reminding me. I’ll deal with you separately and not in her thread. Oh .. Yea there is nothing to deal with cus I don’t care……………

Quote: I'm done arguing with you. Don't say another word to me again. Got it! I have a right to SPEAK my mind on things too. This is a DEMOCRACY!Don't tell me to be quiet!giggles like a jerk - but your great entertainment. You wanted to be pulled into this…. ….