This makes it ok... *drool*

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Damn boy... Haven't seen you stand tall like this in a long time. Oh and he never called anyone a "bitch"....

I get what you mean and I agree with you 100%.Abi you also get upset about things that have nothing to do with you so dont tell people to chill (as i remember telling you to do many times before and you didnt appreciate it).  Quote: You honestly don't know what I've put up with it and I don't like putting it out there for all to see cause it's my business in the first place. But excuse me for taking action on what I'm fed up with. Then why are you doing the EXACT same thing?? Thats like me ranting about how much I HATE people littering .. and then emptying an entire bag of trash out in public

Quote: So, that makes you look like a hypocrite from where I stand. If you're offended by what I say, then too bad. I have a right to SPEAK my mind on things too. This is a DEMOCRACY!Don't tell me to be quiet!  Quote: That's there how it is! I'm done arguing with you. Don't say another word to me again. Got it! Who sounds like a hypocrite now??CR did NOTHING wrong but voice his opinion..  Quote: Hence why we have an OMG! (objectifying men group) on campus. It's fun. We get to make cat calls at all the hott guys that pass our rooms, classes, or dining halls. lolTHAT is the inappropriate part!!!

Quote:So why do you do it? (asked to any woman or man willing to answer).. Was it answered? No.. Did you answer it - yes you did… “It's called irony, payback, what comes around goes around. If I can't keep them from doing it to me then I have every right to do it right back. Hence why we have an OMG! (objectifying men group) on campus. It's fun. We get to make cat calls at all the hott guys that pass our rooms, classes, or dining halls. Lol” why did you create to be personal? Nvm I don’t need you to answer. Dude... are you serious? It's a joke! The OMG is a group that was created by the ideas of a group of girls and guys who took WMGS and discussed these actions that go on on campus. It's not to be taken seriously at all. The guys do the same thing to the girls in good fun, they know it's a joke. Hence why they aren't offended. Except it's an insider thing, so since you're not on my campus you wouldn't really know. Which I apologize, I probably should have kept this entire discussion between my friends and I. A2A? silly me.  Quote:It was never personal … not until > lol yes I realize, this post was in good fun, dude……” And everything after…. Plus- I never saw a out lash on “taking something serious” when deek wasn’t into your posted link man. Oh yea, he didn’t bring up the fact that you hated how guys treated you, but yet you do it to them. And really I was going to brush it off (like I do a lot) but after reading your reply to bob…. Well we know how that went.Ok.. you're mistaken. Last week after having a long discussion with one of the seniors she's helped me realize that basically "girl, that's just the way it is!" So really... I'm just trying to suck it up and take it like a man..er.. woman. Yes, I do find it offensive when a guy treats me in such a way, but they're just teenagers, and really I do have to grow up and suck it up. Sure, I'll have to be more conscious on how I present myself and try not to look blatantly horrified when I'm told "honestly, babe, I'm not listening to shit you're saying. I just wanna get in your pants". It's college lol. I've realized this. And it sucks, but whatever, such is life. I have my own personal defense mechanism I created when I'm treated a certain way by men in general, I actually have a huge bias against men in general because of my past and the constant flashbacks I have randomly. But I'm working on that too (yay for progress?). Honestly, I do tend to get too comfortable with the posters on A2A and I'm sorry cause I really do need to watch what I say and realize that you guys just don't know me like that. My bad, on my part. Some things just shouldn't be said. Quote:I’d love to pick that post apart for you but I’m not in the mood (due to my shoulder not this) but I will say something…. This, “I'm not trying to complain, but GRRRRR.... guys get away with being disgusting, offensive, perverts every single day thinking they can say whatever they want and I shouldn't get defensive. So if they can do that, everyday, then I should be able to do the same> Is exactly why I was surprised by your words. Yes it bothers me - why you shouldn’t lower yourself to behavior you hate to fit in… or whatever real reason. I’m just not buying the - I do it cus they did it to me first. Dam it Abi your better than that and you know it. Stop acting like a bitch (since deek don’t want me to call you a dog) Why the hell do you want to be a dog??? You were offended. Totally understandable. Perdon. I'm not even getting into it because I really just can't. I've already delved into the matter as much as possible and if you can't understand what I'm saying then... it's all good, amigo. But it is funny. I don't really feel like I'm lowering myself, but to you I am. And even though I stressed the fact that it was indeed a joke by the students on campus, like one of those "self-expression indy projects" they always talk about in the syllabus or whatever like.. changing gender roles and such. But, yea, whatevs, I'm limiting how much I post from now on lol. I'm causing too much "controversy" BACK TO THE BOOKS. No wait... dude I was in the library writing this damn paper from 4:30pm to 2 am! I'm going to friggin bed! bml man... bml...

Quote:Abi you also get upset about things that have nothing to do with you so dont tell people to chill (as i remember telling you to do many times before and you didnt appreciate it).Like I didn't see this coming. I'm not getting into it, chica, but good job being the big sis to Caleb.  Quote:Then why are you doing the EXACT same thing?? Thats like me ranting about how much I HATE people littering .. and then emptying an entire bag of trash out in publicRead response to Caleb.No more a2a man, no me gusta argumento And Armondo, it's all good, dude, thanks . In the words of George Lopez, "I got this!" lol. Remember "I am woman, hear me roar" ROAR which is a great song by the way sung by Helen Reddy during a huge impacting time during the women's movement in the early 70s.

Originally Posted By: A.W.My last rant against you CR...Why did you have to destroy the fun of this thread because you're so miserable? Did you really have to stoop so low to call someone the b word? Really dude, you need to check yourself! You are a two face jerk. One minute you act all nice, then you put them down calling them bad names. What the hell? Dude, you've got issues. Why do you always have to mess up people's fun?Like the saying goes CR..."If you don't have anything nice to say, then DON'T say anything at all". Remember and learn from that phrase. I've lost all respect for you dude. You pissed me off having the audacity to call a woman the b word just because you don't agree. Man, you really need to get a life. Oh will you please just shut the fuck up! Did you just see a post directed at Abi with the word "bitch" in it and you felt you had to defend her? The context of the fucking sentence completely explains the use of the term and that it wasn't used as an insult. So calm the fuck down.(Excessive use of "fuck" was used just for emphasis, not intent to kill or seduce.)

I have a life.. and I agree with CR.. All abi does is complain about men and how they disrespect women and look what she does.. THE EXACT SAME THING!!!!AND he didnt call her a bitch!! Stop your obsession with Abi (EVERYBODY sees it.. u sent me countless emails complaining about how she doesnt notice you) and let her back herself up. Shes not a little girl anymore. She can handle herself.

Originally Posted By: A.W.Bob, don't tell me to shut up! CR called her the b word...GOT IT! As a matter of fact Bob, why don't you just shut up?Go back and read the thread, you'll see that CR never called her a bitch until Deek made a joke about calling her a bitch because she's a girl and she's acting like a "dog". His use of the word was simply an extension of that joke.AND, he never called her a bitch, he said she should stop acting like one (which in context means to stop acting like a dog).So unless you're reading a different thread, or you can admit that you misinterpreted it, how about you just drop it and we won't speak another word of it?I indeed will take the advice and I shall shut up about it. I suggest you do the same. Originally Posted By: A.W.CR and Steph, why do you guys always have to mess up the fun and discourage people from posting whatever they have on their minds? Seriously, I feel you two need to let go of whatever issues you have of your own. This is the reason why some people left this site people of some of you acting like self-righteous, two faced, hypocrites. Really, I feel that your so closed minded that you just want to drag people into not having fun. Just a word of advice, loosen up, grow up, and have some fun for a change and STOP discouraging people from posting their minds.I used to have respect for you, but after reading CR's post...I see why I felt so negative about A2A a while back. I'm telling it as it is...if you don't like it, then too bad. Get a life!Welcome to the world of discussion forums, someone posts their views on something and people respond by posting their own views. Its not about being negative, its expressing your opinion. If you don't want to know about other people's opinions, then you just ignore their posts. Isn't that simple?And you are way too defensive about a non-controversial topic. It is being discussed, yes. But you have come in and blown it way over the top. Your opinion is always welcome and I for one will always read it, but attacking other people who disagree with you is a poor way of communicating. Please get involved, but be civil.

Originally Posted By: StephieJ(EVERYBODY sees it.. u sent me countless emails complaining about how she doesnt notice you)Absolutely no need for this bit.

Oh well..!Im just sticking up for the person I THOUGHT was right.. get used to reality.. not everyone will share the same opinion as you. I dont have a problem with Abi.. I have a problem with her complaining about guys treating her like shes a piece of meat and then her doing the EXACT same thing..but that makes it ok, right? drool  Quote:You are closed minded to what Abi is talking about. No, she doesn't do the EXACT SAME THING. Uhh ya she does..  Quote:I actually do enjoy making guys feel uncomfortable by "cat-calling".  Quote:If I can't keep them from doing it to me then I have every right to do it right back. Hence why we have an OMG! (objectifying men group) on campus. It's fun. We get to make cat calls at all the hott guys that pass our rooms, classes, or dining halls. lol PS Im not pathetic I know that.. just pointing out the facts.. If you cant take it then maybe a discussion forum isn't for you.You arent a child anymore so stop acting like one.

Quote:Really dude, you need to check yourself! Ok - one dick, two balls… no tits. Yep- I’m a dude.

if you can take the towel off.

HOW was I manipulating?

you're naughty

Indians are spicy http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yf-A8j13yfQ I wish more American music videos were like this. More guys dancing rather than the old traditional http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dBc_gm5ci2E

Stop objectifying men! It makes me feel very uncomfortable!!(BTW, I love the profile pic, very sexy! I would so tap that, baby!!!)

LMBO! I like objectifying you the most haha gracias, papi.

How can you objectify me? You don't know what I look like! Unless you're objectifying me based on my sexy intellect and great sense of humour and charisma? I would so tap me...

Random reply...
I can't help but to laugh.. The guy in the towel.. And the towel joke to rad. Haha yea sorry being random

I like watching people dance.. Even the ones that think they can - cus there funny .. But a group that can really dance is .... I don't really know, I just like watching.

Dancers are very talented amd so much more fun to watch than someone standing and singing.

Originally Posted By: RadAnd, what bodies! Ya big gay!