Quote:I don't think anyone here told you to "just take it". You could have just been vocal and told the guy to get the fuck away from you. But to jump the guy later with a friend, that’s the chicken way out of it. This wasn't done in a chicken way at all. It was a mafia style hit. Were the guys who beat Joe Pesci in Casino with baseball bats in a rural cornfield pussies just because they outnumbered him? No. Quote:That lets me know that even you knew you were in the wrong, otherwise why run away? Well of course to a bystander it looks like he was the victim. In the heat of the moment I really couldn't explain to the crowd that it was okay because he raped me first. Quote:So your statement that alluded that the police seen you attack the guy and did nothing is false since you have no clue if they were there or not. Again, gotta watch your credibility. They were probably there, I walked past them 1 min earlier when we were stalking this homo rapist for the kill. Again, in the adrenaline rush I really didn't stop and check but if we had gone on beating this guy for another minute even there is no doubt in my mind we would have gotten arrested. Also, I heard girls nearby were yelling for help from the police so they were most definitely within range. I ran without looking back though, can you blame me, do you want to be tackled, stun-gunned and pinned with your arms behind your back? Well you probably are into that but not me.
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I AM BEING MOLESTED BY HOMOSEXUALS!
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Originally Posted By: NtroducingMyself Originally Posted By: shawunga Originally Posted By: NtroducingMyself Quote: Next piece of shit who touches me blatantly in a public place gets sodomized with a knife. Have fun in jail! Bubba needs a new wife. But in all seriousness, that's just a stupid, irrational, and immature response. You let someone who was drunk, and being stupid (Who was most likely NOT gay) control your emotions. Learn to brush stuff off and move on. In the end, its not worth it. You know what they do to open homosexuals in jail, Susie? Make em grow their hair long, wear koolaid powder and water as "lipstick," tattoo tits on their back so the guys raping you can pretend they're with a woman. Yeah so I hope YOU never go to jail. YAWN Keep talking troll.. the more and more you post the more I don't believe anything you ever posted. You're right, i am lying everything I said is a complete lie, I love making up stories about these kind of things. Right, you found me out. Clap clap. In fact I was actually born without a lower half of my body so this guy couldn't have even dry-humped me.
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So this is all a lie, never happened. I don't even know what a bar is. What is a "hump" I heard that word somewhere and wanted to use it. In fact I don't even exist, I lied about that too.
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Originally Posted By: NtroducingMyself Quote:You know what they do to open homosexuals in jail, Susie? Make em grow their hair long, wear koolaid powder and water as "lipstick," tattoo tits on their back so the guys raping you can pretend they're with a woman. Personal Experience I take it? I really, really hope you get raped violently so you can see how it feels to be helpless and violated. Then I hope everyone tells you it's your fault and the guy who raped you didn't do anything wrong.
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Just ban me from this shithole forum anyway. You all support gay mens "rights" to rape and molest innocent guys in bars who don't want any part of it and demonize them if they get mad. Why did I ever think anyone here would be on my side anyways? Still, I promise the next time it happens the piece of shit will regret it forever.
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break a leg, kick one through the glass of the door way, deal with the last two.THey had no idea what was coming, they never for a second thought Id do anything.THey knocked down my 4 year old son as me and him walked in to a 7-11 and they were maybe 19 or 20.I picked him up, told them to apologize to my son for being inconsiderate pricks and then having the balls to laugh at him.They laughed at me and told me to fuck off, so I started swinging.Fuck em.I have rarely been in any fights that it was just me against some one else. Its always me against the bar, or 3 or 4 people.Never stopped me from standing up for myself, never stopped me from trying, the worst that happens is I get my ass kicked, not like that never happened before or never will again.I refuse to live in fear, I will never be forced to look myself in the mirror and know I was to afraid to do anything.
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Quote: Were the guys who beat Joe Pesci in Casino with baseball bats in a rural cornfield pussies just because they outnumbered him? Yes, they were pussies too. Anyone that feel they have to have more than themselves to jump one person is a pussy. Nothing wrong with having friends there incase something goes horrible bad, but to have them jump in is being a pussy. Quote:Well of course to a bystander it looks like he was the victim. In the heat of the moment I really couldn't explain to the crowd that it was okay because he raped me first. He was the victim. He was drunk and did something stupid. He didn't assult you or rape you like you keep insisting. But on the other hand you DID assault him.Just to be clear, I am not condoming his actions either. I would have been just as annoyed if someone did that to me, but it never gives anyone the right to jump a person. Quote: I ran without looking back though, can you blame me, do you want to be tackled, stun-gunned and pinned with your arms behind your back? Nope I wouldn't want that either but thats also why I don't jump people for stupid reasons (Or at all really). I think deep down (if this truly happened) you know you were wrong, but you have to try and put up this "bad ass" front. You were wrong, accept it and move on. And why you are at it, accept the fact you were not rape or molested. At most you were the victim of some stupid straight guy who had too much to drink and you just happened to be at the right place at the wrong time.
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Quote:I really, really hope you get raped violently so you can see how it feels to be helpless and violated. Anyone who was truly raped would never wish it on another person.Secondly you weren't helpless, you could have turned around and told the guy to get the fuck away. You could have pushed him right there, instead of doing it in a way where he was defenseless.
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Why did I ever think anyone here would be on my side anyways?
Did you really expect people to be on your side when what you did was completely wrong? If you felt the need to fight the guy for what he did fine whatever I think its childish but do what you gotta do. But to have a friend help you beat his ass, is wrong. Not to mention you jumoed the guy, which is just chicken shit. Be a man and fight on even ground.
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Originally Posted By: NtroducingMyself Quote: Were the guys who beat Joe Pesci in Casino with baseball bats in a rural cornfield pussies just because they outnumbered him? Yes, they were pussies too. Anyone that feel they have to have more than themselves to jump one person is a pussy. Nothing wrong with having friends there incase something goes horrible bad, but to have them jump in is being a pussy. Quote:Well of course to a bystander it looks like he was the victim. In the heat of the moment I really couldn't explain to the crowd that it was okay because he raped me first. He was the victim. He was drunk and did something stupid. He didn't assult you or rape you like you keep insisting. But on the other hand you DID assault him.Just to be clear, I am not condoming his actions either. I would have been just as annoyed if someone did that to me, but it never gives anyone the right to jump a person. Quote: I ran without looking back though, can you blame me, do you want to be tackled, stun-gunned and pinned with your arms behind your back? Nope I wouldn't want that either but thats also why I don't jump people for stupid reasons (Or at all really). I think deep down (if this truly happened) you know you were wrong, but you have to try and put up this "bad ass" front. You were wrong, accept it and move on. And why you are at it, accept the fact you were not rape or molested. At most you were the victim of some stupid straight guy who had too much to drink and you just happened to be at the right place at the wrong time. A mob hit often necessitates having a crew of at least 4. First off, digging a hole deep enough for a body can be a pain in the ass all by yourself so it helps to have friends there. This guy was no "victim," he made a decision to make unwanted sexual contact with me. He had a choice. Furthermore, he was confronted and given the option to apologize but instead he got very close to my friend, like he was about to kiss him even, this is what enraged my friend to want to kick his ass. He also taunted him saying "i can dry hump the shit out of this kid all I want." Right then and there he signed his death warrant, I would have happily killed him with no remorse if it was a deserted area.
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Originally Posted By: NtroducingMyself Quote: Why did I ever think anyone here would be on my side anyways? Did you really expect people to be on your side when what you did was completely wrong? If you felt the need to fight the guy for what he did fine whatever I think its childish but do what you gotta do. But to have a friend help you beat his ass, is wrong. Not to mention you jumoed the guy, which is just chicken shit. Be a man and fight on even ground. My friend didn't help me, I helped him even though he really didn't need my help. In reality it was his fight since like I said the guy got in his face uncomfortably close. I have said this probably 10 times if you can fucking read. Everything you say is fallacious.
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Can we go back to my original question. What am I doing to bring unwanted attention? How can I avoid this from happening? Why does it happen to me disproportionate times? Why does it never happen to my friends? Should I just give up on going to the bars?
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Furthermore, he was confronted and given the option to apologize but instead he got very close to my friend
And how many drunken men are going to let another guy tell him what to do. His reaction is not surprising to me, if anything it was expected.
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like he was about to kiss him even
Again trying to turn something sexual when it wasn't there. When people are drunk they often get too close to people when they talk, let alone when there is a possibility of confrontation.
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He also taunted him saying "i can dry hump the shit out of this kid all I want."
You said it correctly, it was a taunt. He didn't mean what he said or even truly meant he wanted to hump you. It was to get under your friends skin and to piss him off even more. Again, typical drunk idiot.
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I would have happily killed him with no remorse if it was a deserted area.
If thats truly how you feel, that you can take a human life because the guy was a drunken idiot, than you need to get some psychological help. And I am serious about that, not joking or being silly. Get help before you actually kill someone and find out how many "connections" you truly don't have.
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Everything you say is fallacious
Regardless of how you word it, you BOTH beat the guy up. Whether your friend started it or you started it... you BOTH beat him up. Making you both pussies.
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What am I doing to bring unwanted attention?
You are most likely doing nothing wrong, in my opinion you just got unlucky as well as reading too much into other people's actions. Just because someone touches your shoulder does not mean they are making a sexual advance. And let's say they were advances, tell them no thanks you are straight and they'll leave you alone.
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Quote:Everything you say is fallacious ooo, fallacious, that's a big word. You like a big fallacy in your mouthyou're not even a good troll, stop wasting your time.
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If thats truly how you feel, that you can take a human life because the guy was a drunken idiot, than you need to get some psychological help. And I am serious about that, not joking or being silly. Get help before you actually kill someone and find out how many "connections" you truly don't have.
Ok so I probably would not ever kill anyone but I'm just saying those things because of how much this pisses me off and that it happens in front of my friends and other people which is really embarrassing. Maybe you just don't understand that when your friends and everyone else see you get dry-humped you have to react in this way or else you look like a bitch.
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You don't have to react in any way. A simple "Knock the shit off" or just laughed it off and call the guy a drunk idiot would have been more beneficial not to mention would have shown your maturity.Jumping a guy with 2 to 1 odds does nothing to benefit your character.
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Unsupervised...I have to agree with you. TROLL. You came on to this site posting a very long rant about not wanting to be gay. You were explained to that it wasn't a choice and that maybe you were just curious. You went on to say that it was perverted and that gay men were sexual deviants. You were repremanded of course because this a forum where we accept those lifestyles. You got angry, defensive, and said more rude offensive things. You then said you didn't understand why you were even on the site. After your fruitless attempts of convincing anyone that gay men are terrible, perverted, rapists, you then write another post that has again angered many of the members. You are getting honest outllooks on the situation but you refuse to listen to it. You act as though these people are angering you by what you're saying but continue to post responses. You know that you aren't going to convince anyone, just like last time. So either you are just fucking with us, you are really this narrowminded, or you are trying to convince yourself. It is hard to believe you are a real person. Yes, there are people like you, but none that would argue this long about something that no one agrees with you on. It's hard to fathom that any of this is true. But let's say it is true. No one here wants to offend you. Everyone is simply giving their outlook. You are the picking fights. SO, A. Under law, what you experienced was not rape or sexual assault. Look up the laws. B. To convict someone of murder, motive is not required, only malice aforethought. You and your buddy planned to go beat up this man because you were angry. Had you killed him, you could technically be charged with murder. Many states do not change sentencing based on intoxication. C. Men touch and rub women they do not know it bars all of the time. It isn't sexual assault. D. If you were to hit on a gay woman, would you think it just if she beat your ass?E. If you find yourself so unappealing, then why are people hitting on you?F. You need a lesson in current social structure. It would be a major mistake to assume everyone is straight. Gay men and women are on the rise. G. There are no straight or gay bars. And one is allowed to hit on whomever they please (unless they are underage if course). It's every humans' right. H. There are no gay signals unless you make them that way. Most of my gay friends are quite normal. They get hit on by girls and are not defined by their sexuality. Not all lesbians are butches. Not all gay men paint their toenails and talk with a lisp. That's a sterotype that you need to push out of your head. I. If you are messing with this forum, leave. There are people here truly trying to find answers. We want to help. But you have to be willing to admit you're wrong sometimes.
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Quote: A. Under law, what you experienced was not rape or sexual assault. Look up the laws. Ok yeah, that's a gross exaggeration but it's disgusting, degrading, and ruins my night. Quote: To convict someone of murder, motive is not required, only malice aforethought. You and your buddy planned to go beat up this man because you were angry. Had you killed him, you could technically be charged with murder. Many states do not change sentencing based on intoxication. In that case, yes it's premeditated murder. But let's say I was standing somewhere, a guy humps me, and I go into uncontrollable rage and kill him. That's the same thing as if I went into my bedroom, saw a man with my wife and shot them both without thinking. Those are things that would cause a reasonable minded person to commit an act of violence. It still isn't excusable but it makes it voluntary manslaughter. Quote:Men touch and rub women they do not know it bars all of the time. It isn't sexual assault. Yes, but women dance seductively effectively inviting a guy to grind up on them. I was standing outside minding my own business and was humped by a piece of shit. Quote:If you were to hit on a gay woman, would you think it just if she beat your ass? Well since real lesbians often are 300 lbs, wear a flannel button down, boots, and have crew cuts I probably wouldn't want to hit on her. Quote: If you find yourself so unappealing, then why are people hitting on you? It's guys who hit on me not girls and I figure gay men have no standards or something. I mean they give hand jobs to strange truckers at rest stops after all. Quote: You need a lesson in current social structure. It would be a major mistake to assume everyone is straight. Gay men and women are on the rise. Yeah well not everyone is gay either. Gays should be careful when they try and do the courtship routine, they cannot follow the same tactics that straight people do because homosexuality is still not accepted everywhere and they should keep their activities covert and to themselves. Quote: here are no straight or gay bars. And one is allowed to hit on whomever they please (unless they are underage if course). It's every humans' right. If a guy wants to hit on guys he needs to go to a gay bar, unless you are in San Fransisco or Brazil or somewhere really gay it is NOT ACCEPTABLE. I should never have to experience an awkward moment on MY territory, if I go on THEIR territory I'm fair game and I have no right to complain. Like I said before, they're just putting themselves in danger, not from me but in general. At least the bars I go to have a lot of frat-boy, meat head, douche types who I'm sure would have no problem doing something ALOT worse then what I did to that guy if some homosexual came up trying to sleep with them.It is okay for a man to hit on a woman because men are supposed to go after women and the majority do. For a man to hit on a man he should know beyond a reasonable doubt that he is gay. All men are straight until proven gay. Quote:There are no gay signals unless you make them that way. Most of my gay friends are quite normal. They get hit on by girls and are not defined by their sexuality. Not all lesbians are butches. Not all gay men paint their toenails and talk with a lisp. That's a sterotype that you need to push out of your head. Well I don't know why they're attacking me then, I am the most non-descript person ever. I try to keep attention away from myself in public. Quote: If you are messing with this forum, leave. There are people here truly trying to find answers. I'm not here to troll, if I were I would have had a much better game plan. I just get frustrated with some of you defending behavior that is unacceptable. I am not bashing homosexuality but I do not want to be exposed to it in non-homosexual environments and all of you are saying it's okay for gay homosexual men to go up to guys who they don't know are gay or straight and try to hit on them.
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Yes, but women dance seductively effectively inviting a guy to grind up on them.
Yes of course! Women deserve to be sexually assaulted because they are out having fun with the friends dancing. How dare they!
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Well since real lesbians often are 300 lbs, wear a flannel button down, boots, and have crew cuts I probably wouldn't want to hit on her.
This whole statement just shows how little you know. My sister is a lesbian and she is thin, wears makeup, has longer hair and is rather pretty. Now yes there are some lesbians that are heavier, with crew cuts, but to make a statement that "real lesbians " (Whatever thats supposed to mean) are all that way is just not even close to true.
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I mean they give hand jobs to strange truckers at rest stops after all.
Yup.. at the local truck stops I'm called Right-hand Randy!!
Okay we seroiusly need a "rolls eyes" smiley face.
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they cannot follow the same tactics that straight people do because homosexuality is still not accepted everywhere and they should keep their activities covert and to themselves.
Its funny you have gone out of your way to bash people who do things in secret or "covert" but than you tell us thats how we have to act. Pick one way or the other, you cannot have both.
Secondly, we have every right to court people how we see fit.. just as any other American citizen. As long as we are not hurting anyone, why should you even care?
(And before you even go there, the guy who "humped" you was not trying to court you, he was being a drunk idiot. So you cannot even say this guy was trying to court you and he hurt you.)
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I am not bashing homosexuality
Wow really? The majority of your posts are dedicated to bashing homosexuals. So if thats not your intentions you have a very sad way of showing it.
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Originally Posted By: NtroducingMyselfYup.. at the local truck stops I'm called Right-hand Randy!! Don't leave me with gem like that you'll never hear the end of it.