What do you do when you have a broken heart?
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Broken
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What's going on?You and Shannnon broke up?
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yea....i need something to help take my mind off her.
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So sorry to hear hun:(. What happened??Is there any way to fix it?? If I were you I would personally smoke the fattest blunt I could find.. but really that won't help.Spending time with your friends and venting is one of the best things to do after a breakup.. being alone is not a good option.. trust me.I'm here if u need to talk buddy
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Drink, drugs, violence, other irrational behaviour.... All appealing, all very very bad!
The basic rule is to distract yourself but in a healthy way. A new hobby, an increased effort at an old one, books, movies, new projects to work on or using new-found free time to finally finish projects that are incomplete.
If there is no chance of getting back together or you really don't want to get back together then you need to keep busy. Thinking about it for too long will create huge amounts of regret and will cause pain and probably result in you doing something that you'll regret.
The most important thing to remember is that losing someone is not the end of the world, no matter how it can feel that way. It actually opens you up to new opportunities that couldn't have even been considered before such as experience the world by yourself and exploring new routes for your life to follow.