From what I have gathered, most males will grab their penis and stroke in a pump-like fashion.For me, however, I like to rub against my right thigh.Is this weird? Probably. Am I alone, is it unhealthy at all, I also wonder if it contributes to me being so insensitive. I have issue's with some girls. When its a more of a grind-like fashion, its usually not an issue, but I notice that I have no sensitivity with the penis itself, but not get stimulated with the tip being stroked/brushed up to. Is this an issue with guys who are bigger down under?