Have you ever felt dirty because of sex?

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But how can one not feel guilty about something?I simply feel like when you do too dirty stuff then you lose some of your innocence.

You do, that's why it's called innocence.If you want to get rid of the guilt look at it this way. Instead of morning the loss of your innocence your growing passed your childish naiveté.

But I want to stay innocent and be a gooy guy not a bad guy. Sometimes after fapping I dont even want to look at me in the mirror.

It's natural, it's a part of life and it's not only a healthy sexual outlet it's part of healthy psyche.If you want to remain innocent, that means your gonna miss out on a lot of good shit.

maybe lose the condom if it makes you feel that way?? Can't say I've ever felt "dirty" after sex.. but there were times I felt unhappy/sad after sex :(.. one night stands, having sex when I didn't want to etc. for example i felt disgusted with myself and with my ex-boyfriend when he made me have sex with him while I laid there and cried I have felt "dirty" in a good way though with myself and with others hahah.. I'm a freak in the sheets!!!

Originally Posted By: StephieJCan't say I've ever felt "dirty" after sex.. but there were times I felt unhappy/sad after sex :(.. one night stands, having sex when I didn't want to etc. for example i felt disgusted with myself and with my ex-boyfriend when he made me have sex with him while I laid there and cried That's rape! Did you do something about it?

No I stayed with him for 2 more years. I was such an idiot. It didn't happen that often.

Wow, I am sorry about that. Don't stay with such asshole who treat you like this! You're a precious human being who deserves better than this!

I realized that when I left.

I hope you're in a better relationship now. It's never okay to abuse a woman this way. This is a serious crime.

I am not in a relationship right now:)! And I like it that way!

Whatever you like. :smile:
Just don't let any ass treat you this way.

You should keep in mind that however good you think about yourself in real life, people should only take that as face value. You are still a stranger online posting on a site with some pretty sexually charged topics. We don't know you personally, so you are a stranger and you can say anything and be anyone online.

Your preconceived notions and generalizations might be the problem. Just a thought....