I have been with my partner for one year. We live together and life has been great, however in the last week we have had two rows, one about his ex girlfriend who is always interfering and spreading lies and rumours about me to his family and he agrees with me that she is a cow but still wants to be mates with her. Doesn't see her that often but she does call him with her boyfriend troubles and that bugs me. I can't stop him from being mates with her really, and the other row was because he is feeling down beacuse of his work and his mum passing away a few months ago and says he needs a bit of time to himself, I am feeling down to as I have a job which is based from home and very stressful but lonely, By the time he comes home of an evening I have been sat in my office on my own without anyone to have spoken to for ten hours or so, and he says that I am "too much" when he gets home, however I just leave him to do his own thing and chill out and watch tv. If I ask him once a week to come out with me and my friends (also his friends) he says he is too tired and if he does come he doesn't always enjoy himself.
Most of the time we are both happy just chilling out together, going shopping, days out, cinema, dinner etc. but theres something not right this week and I can't put my finger on it. I love him so much and don't want to row (or lose him) he does say he loves me all the time too, so i just don't know what to do. Any Ideas out there???