So, I can't remember what day it was, either Tuesday night, July 5th or Wednesday morning July 6th, but my girlfriend and I had unprotected sex. I was an idiot and thought she was still on birth control, because she didn't stop me/say anything and I was too stupid enough to ask. And too stupid to wear a condom. So, now I am panicked and the thought of this becoming a pregnancy is destroying me.- The night we had sex she had literally just come off her period.- I don't know why we didn't get a morning after pill immediately, another STUPID move. However, she just took the pill today, Sat, July 9th in the morning. Can someone please comment on this and let me know what the chances are???
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Chance of pregnancy? Please help
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Just after she is off her period is a pretty low fertility time, because usually the egg is not released for at least a week later. Usually taking the morning-after pill so late wouldn't be much protection, but because it was so early in the period it might still be useful. So I would estimate the chance of pregnancy is low.
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No sermon about what you did and didn't do, just a concurrance that the chance of pregnancy is low.
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Also, why didn't she freak out or tell me the night it happened? We were about to have sex again the night after it happened, and that's when she asked if I had a condom.I'm sorry but if I was her, I would have freaked out. In the very least I would have told my partner. And she didn't jump to get a morning after pill?? What is wrong with her? Shouldn't this be a red flag about our relationship in general?
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It's tough for anyone here to know what's in her head. It's possible that she felt that just coming off her period that it was safe (but why the next night??).Does she tend to be flighty about other things?
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Yes she is 'flighty' about other things. But to me, this is not something to take lightly. Who knows.
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Good news, she's on her next period, so we're in the clear. I have learned my lesson the hard and stressful way--thanks for the help.
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I'm glad things worked out for you the way you wanted. Thanks for letting us know.This presents an opportunity also for others to learn from your travails. Remember that it's up to you to be responsible for you. Don't just assume that others will take care of you.