Okay, so there's this girl I like, and I have done for a while now, but I will start the story form a few days ago.
I only actually told anyone that I liked this girl about a week ago, and then because the girl I told just can't keep her mouth shut, she told the girl I like, and then the girl i like told her she thinks she likes me, which eventually got round to me, and being smooth as I am (LOL jk), I didn't say anything and we have been texting for a while (since before she found out).
She then ha this party thing at her house, which was cool, and early on i asked her about some other guy she liked (and had done stuff with) a while back, and i asked her if she actually liked him at the time, and she said not really and that if she 'likes' somone for more than 2 weeks, she knows it's more than just a stupid teen thing, and blahblahblah. Anyway later on now, and we were both kinda drunk, not so drunk we can;t remember anything, (well it;s a bit distorted for me) and it was just dying down, and then we were sitting on the sofa, and i just started hugging her (i was being a bit touchy with people all night anyway) and after about five minutes of us sitting there we both confessed to liking each other, but then she said she's really sorry that she doesn't want to be in a relationship, and she explained to me that she just wants to 'have fun' - no need to tell you what she means by that. I know this isn;t just one of those excuses to say no, because we spent practically from 12am till 6am just holding each other, which was nice :).
Okay now to the main point, I just want to have a way to make her want a relationship with me, on top of actually liking me. She seemed really adamant about not wanting to go too far with me either, so i don;t get too attached - I'm that kinda guy - and so that's kinda another reason i want a relationship with her (we didn;t even kiss -.-)
I don;t want, and will just ignore all the posts saying that she's just making excuses, because i know she's not, if you were in my shoes, you would know she;s not.