Giving a Blowjob

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How can I not be repulsed? I don't want anything to get in my mouth, otherwise I'm going to have the urge to spit. I just could swallow. Thinking about it makes me nauseous. I would be able to kiss him after, even if the guy went down on me. Bodily fluids gross me out. I don't know how people do it. I don't think i'll ever be able to do it. Ughhhhh...my stomach hurts now.

The few times I've went down on a girl (Which while I'm a straight male I've never given a blow job, I assume is a "worse" experience as we put our tongue inside a girl etc etc) I just bared with it and tried not to think about it.

But honestly, I don't like doing it. So I don't. I don't see why you'd be required too.

If you still feel you need to blow someone but don't want the fluids in your mouth, buy flavored condoms.

Why do you have to let him ejaculate in your mouth? It's not a requirement.

It is soooooo NOT a requirement! It's just, how do I avoid getting anything at all in my mouth? When I'm turned on, even before I guy touches me, I'm wet all over. If a guy were to go down on me he'd get stuff in his mouth before I even come.I guess, maybe, if I stay away from the tip?? Ugh....

It's not required, but he (the guy I'm dating) asked me if I'd ever done it. I assumed he likes it, and I don't think I'll be having sex with him right away (I really don't care for sex). I sort of feel like it's the least I could do in the mean time.

If he doesn't ejaculate.. what is there to get into your mouth? If he is a descent guy and you tell him you object to him ejaculating while you are giving him a BJ.. then he should adhere to your wishes....

Quote:If he doesn't ejaculate.. what is there to get into your mouth? precum

That's if he does produce precum.. I don't. Not all do, right? I can almost guarantee if she were to give him a BJ and he did release precum, she wouldn't be bothered by it.

lol, yes I would!I don't want anything getting in or near my mouth. That would very much ruin the mood and the night for me.

That's what you "think".

And why do you think this? I mean if I can feel the texture, taste something in my mouth I wouldn't like that. That's what I want to avoid. Just thinking about it makes me nauseous. Maybe some people wouldn't mind or like it, but it's something I can't stomach, literally.

What are you talking about... semen or precum?

Both.

Precum really has no texture or taste for that matter. With your saliva... you will not even notice it.. It's all in your head. Semen is different and understandable. But precum if any.. cmon.You're making a mountain out of a molehill.

You're correct. Not all produce precum and I should have qualified that. It's just that she seems so sure that she doesn't want anything in her mouth (other than his penis) and I didn't want her to freak out and take away from what should be enjoyable for both of them.

I understand.. And her issue is mostly mental.. How can you be sooo positive that you will have an issue with something if you have never experienced it....

Possibly, but still I can't get it out of my head. I know precum can have a texture (well I've felt my own). I already know it's there and coming. I just wish it wasn't there.

Watching porn is my only experience and it just grosses me out when I see it near someone's mouth or se the eat/swallow it. I just can't watch and it completely turns me off. I'm also turned off my my own bodily fluids which all look pretty disgusting.
If I don't like when someone else does it, why would/how could I like it if I were to do it? I don't even want to bother with BJs now. My sex life is hopeless. I just realize over and over again just how different I am from the average girl/guy. Everyone seems to like things I don't like.

That doesn't turn me on. I'm more into touching (the right person) and I like the hands and teeth. I don't really like semen and fluids. If I weren't so grossed out by what comes out of my own vagina I'd be more into to sucking. I always think about what I'm going to do if he wants to kiss me after.

Precum, I would say is more watery than vaginal secretions. Like I said you are making too big of a deal out of it... But that's OK.. It's just how you feel.. Let me ask you...Are you just as grossed out by slaiva?

Only if the guys is a sloppy kisser or he tastes bad. I don't like extremely wet kisses or spitting.