Does the amount of orgasm determine your sex drive? (stupid phone won't let me type the title in)So the stupid guy I been talking about in previous posts (which I was still "dating" until last night) said that I have a high sex drive because he was able to make me orgasm multiple times. I said it's different because I still dint have this big desire for sex and it's not like I have to fight my urges. I wouldn't even call them urges. I get bored, lazy, and easily distracted and most porn makes me nauseous. The only reason I was able to orgasm multiple times was because someone else was getting me off. I don't think it accurately measures my desire for...it felt good and I was satisfied with that. I didn't care about going farther.
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Does amount of orgasms determine your sex drive?
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Everyone is an individual, and no scale, no single measure, can describe a person well.
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I don't know...he confused me a lot.
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No, it means he just knew how to give you orgasms
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I think I led him on, but I said I didn't want to have sex. He didn't believe. :frowning:
I' like fooling around, but I knew he wanted more and I wasn't comfortable with that.
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Um...if you didn't want to have sex, then you shouldn't have. How long have you been talking/fooling around with this guy?
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I didn't have sex.Hmmm...it's been a while now. I stopped hanging out with him some time before Thanksgiving I think and then we had our IM argument (he didn't want to talk face to face, so we were on Facebook) beginning of December. I haven't talked/chatted with him since. We met online in late September and had our first date in October (see here). It was doomed from the start.
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Sounds like he's telling you that to get you to think you're someone who craves/needs more sex. A sex drive is the sum total of how much time you spend having AND just thinking about sex. You can have a sex drive and not be having any sex. It's the craving. On the other hand, you can can a low sex drive & have all those orgasms because you were put in a situation (hopefully willingly) where that was the outcome.