Sooo i just got my first girlfriend im 23 :OOOO and we've been messing around with sex and stuffs. We've even started having full on sex. Almost every time when we go at it seriously she will suddenly stop me and back up and curl in a ball. I asked her whats wrong i thought perhaps i hurt her she says "nothing...." then a few minutes later she'll uncurl and say it got 2 sensitive. I thought maybe she came but she says she didnt. she thinks maybe she was about 2. Every time i try to push her through she runs away though. Its getting to the point where i am becoming insecure like she is getting turned off from something i did... I would never tell her that cuz i dont want her to fake an orgasm or feel pressured to do it but its really starting to make me feel inadequate.*the strange thing is she seems to have more sexual appetite than i do. I only initiate once or twice a week she makes sure we do something almost every time we see each other.Someone pleaaaseeee explain or at least give me advice! Are there any girls here who used to do what she does and maybe explain for me? *forgive my writing. I was born to write code not english :P
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Orgasm?
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I presume she's inexperienced and perhaps nervous?
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Honestly I would try not initiating for once--let her initiate. I know that this is going to be hard as males tend to have a stronger sexual appetite than women, but give it a try. Once she initiates, she is the one setting the pace so you don't have to feel like you're pressuring her in any way. She might not initiate sex during the first meeting either, so you will have to be patient. Anyways, until then you can just masturbate before you see her. I recommend you get one of these...makes masturbation equally as good as sex. http://www.thepleasurepillow.com/
Best of luck!