I'm trying to figure out what guys want in a girl. I can't seem to find the answer. Do guys like skinny chicks or fat ones or just in the middle? or is it about personality? I guess another question I have is how do you get a guys attention without being slutty. I want to attract the guys who want a relationship not just a fling and how do I know weather a guy is interested in me because he likes me instead of just wanting to get into my pants?
What guys want
What do girls want in a guy? Do they want the big strong hulk of a man or the quiet sensitive guy? The truth is, it depends on the person, and the same goes for guys.
The best idea is to not advertise yourself as slutty just because you think that's what guys want, because that will only attract guys that want slutty girls. Put yourself out there as who you really are and it will attract the attention of someone who wants to be with you. And don't make the mistake of sitting idly by waiting for someone to notice you either, if there is someone that you like then you should try to approach them.
Everyone notices physical traits first, its inevitable as we often see people before we hear them, but they're not going to know who you are unless you get talking to them.
And most guys that show interest in you will want to get into your pants. This does not make them bad people, it just makes them guys. Just remember that no matter what, you have full control of your body and cannot be forced to do anything that you don't want to. Believe me, guys will do anything up to and including begging to have sex, they may even try to use what they consider logical arguments in an effort to convince you that its the right thing to do, but it's a two way street. Never do anything that you really do not want to do.