Im writing this for my husband because he is kind of embarassed and our sex life is really suffering or non existant.Hes a very horny person and has been since Ive been married to him. (40 years). Im 10 years younger than him and can take sex or leave it. I like it but dont really need it. For many years we did almost every day. Lately his penis has developed a hook in it pointing more up-word. (45deg angle) Because of the hook it is actually shorter now. Probably about 4 inches.I have had a hip replacement and now Im not very flexible.2 questions if any one can help1. Whats going on with his penis???2. Last time we tried to have sex he couldnt get it in me. I blame it on the hook but he insists that not the problem. He just blames it our flexability. He says we just have to find the right position to take advantage of the hook. We both are heavy people total weight between us is about 410 lbs. Lately all I can do is give him a hand job and heis not happy thats all we can do. Need some sugestions. Please help.
Penis is getting a hook or bend
Probably warrents a trip to a urologist. Most likely there is some damage or blockage in the erectile tissue.
It sounds like Peyronie's disease. That can develop in older men, and most doctors would be able to diagnose it, though a urologist would have most experience. Unfortunately there aren't many good treatment options.There is a Peyronie's Disease Society which has information and also a forum and a forum for women whose partners are affected.