I do not know if what I have done makes me a pedo? I think about this every day and I am sickened by it and I feel like I am disgusting. When I was 13/14 I was helping out at my previous childminder who I used to go too. Basically, I kissed another boy, who was 10, and he touched me. I felt so disgusted by my action that I have been back numerous times to apologise, but I cannot seem to find a moment to tell him without anyone else seeing me. I am just very upset at this and am worried about my actions. Could I have some advice please,Thankyou
Am I a pedo?
Hi AmIaPedo, welcome to A2A. You only talk about one action in the past - but what of the present? The past can't be changed, so let it go. The present is what matters.
Honey, you have to look at this in a different manner,you yourself were still a child (you could be still, but of this fact I am unaware) and therefore cannot be classed as a paeodophile. Yes, it was unorthodox to have sexual interactions with a ten year old but kissing him was perfectly fine. On another note, was he willingly doing so, was it his idea? That may also alter your guilty conscience. But, if you feel so bad about it ask him if you can talk to him about it, he may not even want your apologies. I'm pretty sure no-one would think it that odd if you were to have a conversation with a boy only a few years your junior and want to do so alone. Sorry if this was no help at all, Bekki. X