I think masturbation is definitely a healthy habit. I use this amazing thing called The Pleasure Pillow and it honestly gives me the most amazing orgasms I have ever had in my entire life. I have tried a ton of other sex toys and nothing comes remotely close. Definitely suggest you guys get one of these. http://www.thepleasurepillow.com/If anyone has any other suggestions I would love to hear them...though I doubt anything can beat The Pleasure Pillow.