Finally, I was starting to choke on all the testosterone in the air, yes, I did want some feedback, no I didn't want some online male posturing or whatever you wannna call it.
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Guys with GF looking at other women
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Thanks Sunny for being straight up. It disturbs me bigtime that guys are picturing the other F's naked though.... it's so caveman or something. I honestly don't picture a guy naked, other than my BF, unless it's seriously obvious he's got a huge one or something, but even then it's just pretty much rooted in the same curiosity that drives sideshows. LOL. I hope you're right about it not indicating that he's a cheater. I have told him it bothers me but he doesn't seem to be able to stop and I'm too smart to see through his attempts at being "subtle". It IS interesting that he accuses me of flirting with guys when I'm charming around cute salesmen etc., so I guess even though they're all "pigs" (sorry guys) that they actually do have some feelings and insecurities just like us.
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Maybe I'm in the minority, but I don't picture the gals naked when I check them out. I do, however, try not be obvious when I'm with my wife though. :grin:
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I dont picture them naked either. I just check them out. I dont even think about it, it just comes naturally.
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i don't pic them naked. i can't say that for no one else but me. there have been times where my brother will say something like you see her juicy fruits or something using one of our code words. lol my brother can be a pig and i hope he don't decide to look at the bored and see this cuz i'll get a wedgie..
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In reply to: i hop ehe don't decide to look at the bored and see this cuz i'll get a wedgie. LOL
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Yeah, you should really tell him that it bothers you, maybe punch him in the arm every now and then when you catch him.But yeah, guys will look. They'll try not to be obvious. I try not to be, but they'll look. Its like nature. However, I don't picture them naked.
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In reply to: Yeah, you should really tell him that it bothers you, maybe punch him in the arm every now and then when you catch him. If you are going to confront him when he does it, you have to do it in a joking or casual manner!
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Thanks for the input everyone! At least this has settled my own worries about me being unattractive as the reason he's always looking. When other dudes look at me with their GF @ their side, I always look away quickly so I don't hurt his GF's feelings, even if he's not too concerned about it!!! My latest tactic is finding the "cuties" before he does and telling him "There's one for you", sorta jokey, sorta not, but at least it makes me feel like I have some control in the situation. Pathetic I know! LOL. There's just not enough "eye candy" for women these days though, a lot of guys just don't work at it like women do. Otherwise I would just give him the same treatment and see how he liked it.
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Um. I TRY NOT TO LOOK AT GIRLS when i'm with my GF. But somtimes that girl JUST walks by and your like DAMN!!! WE can't help it.
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it is fine for guys to look at other women its just the way we are but i dont really do it that much neways all i see is her
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My ex hated it when I looked at other girls. She hated it so much that she'd threaten to break up with me. So I didn't look at all for a while. If there was a female somewhere I'd look at the ground or at a something to read. Hehe. All I have to say is not looking at other females really bites the big one! So I'm not going to ignore what I'm comfortable doing anymore. I don't care if my girl looks at some guy as long as she doesn't cheat on me and I'd like the same treatment. Hell, I don't care if my girl flirts with another guy as long as she doesn't cheat on me, but I know asking for the same treatment for me is probably too much to ask.
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omg, my boyfriend always checks out other chicks. it pisses me the hell off. and he would sometimes say "she is so hot" and i start to yell and threaten to dump him. sometimes he acts like i am more of his friend than girlfriend. but my advice to you is just talk to him about it. i am the overly-jealous type person, and if i were you... i would just dump him. but its your decision.
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You have a good arguement, but i dont now how you are gona get him to stop. I am a 15 yr old guy.when i have gfs I try not to look at or play aroun with girls to much.Just because i dotn want to hurt them or cause trouble. anyhow I g2g
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My Dad does it when we go shopping or other shit like that, and he had a hot 24yo wife. I jsut don't get it!
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I talked to my sister about this issue and gave me a lot of insight. It's only human nature to look at what's attractive. My sis tells me she knows her husband looks at other girls but that doesn't mean he wants to be with them. A lot of females look at other females too. Sure, most girls aren't checking other girls out, but most can say whether another female is attractive or "pretty".
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In reply to: My Dad does it when we go shopping or other shit like that, and he had a hot 24yo wife. He has, sorry meesed up the whole context!
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The best thing for you to do is join him when your together you pick out the hot chicks b4 him and she things like isn't she hot, he'll get sick of it and won't look at them trust me it works i've done it to all the guys i've dated
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lol i only look at other girls when my gf isnt aroud lol
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my girlfriend dosent care that i look at other girls, so of corse i seize that oppertunity and look all i want , but when a nother girl looks at me thats a diffrent storyfor example, today a girl told me i have really good lookin eyes well my girlfriend pushed me out of the way and started cussing her out...i find it amusing and funny, tell her to loosen up all the time but oh wellso to answer your question i would asume its just fine for guys to look at other girls