Should I ask my friend if he masturbates?
I'm wondering if i should masturbate with my friend. He is a guy who doesn't take things too seriously but he is my best friend.
I going to his house and i don't know how to bring it up. I don't know if he has reached puberty yet so i don't know if he can cum.
We're both 13 year old males.
Practically all guys masturbate once they enter puberty; some are just more private about it than others. Does your school have a policy about showering after PE? If not, your friend may be a little shy about being seen naked with you.
You could start out talking about wet dreams. If he's uncomfortable about that, or if he hasn't had any yet, you might want to end the discussion right there.
Just take it slowly and you'll figure it out.
@Masturbator It's actually a very good question. You say your best friends. Is he the kind of best friend you can talk about anything with without him telling the whole world or is he more of a best friend you just hang out with?
I too would suggest bringing up the subject of porn, girls, sex and see if he's comfortable talking and sharing about it. If he is, go slowly. you want it to happen naturally and spontanously opposed to just yanking it out and doing it. I was able to do that with my best friend when I was your age. We actually slept over at each others house quite often and one night we just started talking about girls and sex and what we thought was hot and weird and talked about when we would have sex with a woman, what was the first thing we would want to happen. then I brought up the size question and wondered if I was big enough to satisfy a woman, coz I heard girls only like big dicks. he asked me how big it was and I asked him how big was his. he told me 7 inches. I said prove it and he did. I asked if I could look at it up close and he said sure. I asked if he could cum yet and he said yes. I asked if he was a shooter or a dribbler. he said dribbler. I said I was a shooter and he asked if he could see it shoot coz he never did. So I showed him. The rest his history. We used to jack off together all the way through high school. Go slow with it and don't force it, and play it by ear and see how he responds....
@Masturbator Thanks for your question. I'm sure than many others are equally at the same point of indecision. Be sure to let us know how things go.
I haven't done this before and i'm really nervous. My best friend is a guy i just hang out with. Our school doesn't have a policy about showering after P.E . We just change and go play but we're not in the same class.
How should i bring up masturbation? Do i just ask him 'Do you want to masturbate?' Do i just try to touch his penis and see how he responds? Or do i just do what you guys have suggested?
However you do it, I think you have to make it so that, if he doesn't want to do it, he can say no and leave you still friends.
@Masturbator I think that is a decision you have to make as you know your friend better than we do. If the situation was reversed and he wanted to masturbate with you but you didn't share the feeling you currently have, how would you want someone to approace it with you.. I've personally, from my experience when I was a teenager, I found that the direct approace isn't a good route to take.. Think it through and be ready for the rejection if they think it's too weird. it always worked best for me when it was just the two of us, laughing and joking around when sleeping over at the others house and it was more spontaneous in the moment kind of thing.. Keep us posted on how it went for you. Remeber his friendship should be most important.
I tried to talk about underwear with him on chat today. I asked him 'Do you wear briefs or boxer briefs and he said both so i ask him prove it. He said why and i said just for fun. He replied saying wtf gay?
What should i do now? I'm going to his house tomorrow. Need help quick.
That doesn't sound to me like he would be interested.
@Masturbator I would say that was a good indications he would not be so keen on jacking off with you.... Play it cool.
