Yep, me, the one who has been living with herpes for 25 + years, had sex with someone and didn't tell and believe you me, I KNOW BETTER, but I also know that I am human. I'm sorry, I'm ashamed and at the moment, was being very selfish. OK, so I've bashed myself enough. Now my fingers are crossed. Hoping that he doesn't call me and say "what is this shit"? One of our biggest fears when we make this mistake of not telling prior to sex!! OK, so you're saying, is all of this swearing necessary? Umm, well, no, not really, but it's truly what I'm thinking as I type so to me, it's all good. :-) Again, I'm human. Should I go to confession for my sins? I think not, because what's done is done and it is what it is. Herpes sucks!! Yep, it sure does. I'm sure if I hear from him again, I will then tell him, hoping he doesn't get really pissed or abusive. Trust me, if I deem it worthy of a post, you'll hear about it.
Things happen. I won't die and he won't die, but I do pride myself on striving for totally honesty and communication.
Damn Corona's anyway!! :(