The inside of my vagina is cut up???
@ShylaMercier Cuts that are healing can get a little itchy while scar tissue is forming, but surely the damage should not have been so great, even with rough sex. My guess is an infection.
If you are really reluctant to go to a doctor (and depending on where you are and your circumstances there might be an anonymous clinic you could go to), I would start with anti-fungal/anti-yeast cream and see if that helps.
Are there any specific kinds that would help the healing process to by faster?
I don't think so. There are some ointments that may help healing of uninfected cuts, but if there is infection, fighting that is the first priority.
So I had sex with my boyfriend tonight and the cuts are further inside my vagina now...the cuts hasn't gone away but they weren't bothering me so I thought it was okay...i can't go to the doctors because my parents CANNOT k ow I'm having sex..but I'm really scared...
@ShylaMercier He's not using a metal ring or stud in his penis, is he? Or could it be fingernails?
Cuts are not usual and I think you really need someone to look at them. Is there a clinic, perhaps Planned Parenthood, that you could go to?
He isn't. There just isn't a way for me to do this without alerting my parents because if I do see a doctor, they could tell my parents. I just don't know what else I can do..
I think that this is just fantasy and speculation. This does not happen
You should just let him fuck you and get you pregnant
You need to go to the doctor. Bleeding is dangerous in any case
If you're still having trouble with this, here's my advice:
First off, for something to be wrong this long means something is almost certainly going on and you need to see a gynecologist. You should be seeing one at least once every year, anyway, if only for a checkup. Seeing a gynecologist at this time of your life is routine so don't worry about your parents jumping to conclusions.
As you are above the age of 16 Doctor/Patient Confidentiality law does apply (in America, at least) and the doctor cannot discuss your visit with anyone without your written permission. (If they do they can loose their license, at minimum.) Your parents do not have the right to be in the room with you if you do not give them permission, and they do not have to know about anything that happens in that room unless you give written permission for them to be informed. Its your body, you have a right to privacy.
Let the gynecologist know what has been happening, and don't be afraid to ask any other questions you may have. (Believe me, anything you could imagine asking they've already heard and/or seen. Don't worry about surprising them with weird questions.)
Even if you seem to be all healed, I would still go see a gynecologist to make sure there was no lasting damage, no lingering infection, or to figure out what happened and how to prevent it from happening again.
