Is this a normal situation for a crush?

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So lately I have been absolutely obsessed with this teacher in my class who’s in all but 2 of my lessons helping a kid, but that’s not important. What’s important is that’s I have a huge crush on her and I’ve been trying to figure out her name so I can Facebook her as her second name isn’t enough because I really want pics of her to jerk of to, I’ve taken some pics of her myself to jerk of to but none of them are of her face so it’s not the same. But what is weird that I was planning a big jerk of season tonight to her, the only problem is that I looked st my aunts Facebook profile and she posted a new pic (now I find my aunt attractive and I’ve had a on and off crush on her before) and the new pic showed her recently enlarged tits really well, it’s instantly made me hard and I forgot all about the teacher I have a crush on. I still like the teacher but after seeing that pic of my aunt I’m conflicted, should I have a crush just on my aunt or on the teacher? I really can’t stand having 2 crushes

Welcome, Pepsi. Crushes are intense, but not deeply-rooted: they go as mysteriously as they come. You seem to suffer from particularly powerful sexual urges, which isn't easy.

I don't know how much of a choice we have over how we feel, but, as so often with a crush, both of these crushes are with people who are unavailable. You always, no matter how strong the crush, have to resist doing anything really wrong. What you need, I think, is to get to know some girls who are possible real companions. You might find that helps you to stabilise a bit between bouts of uncontrolled horniness and stressful attempts to put the cork back in the bottle.

I wonder if, if your obsessions ever get to the point where you are afraid of doing something bad, if treating it as a form of OCD might be helpful?

Thanks for the advice

Crushes,sexual urges,Love,Attraction ..these all things can't be controlled by anyone.... you may be dealing with yourself socially or you must be confused about all the feelings.......I come in the second category.....I have been having crush with my uncles wife since 2 years...its a long story.....every day i feel gulity but the next day i get attracted .....In the beginning i could not resist myself and always regreted but now i have bit more balance with mt feelings....its not going to fade away but its going to slow down.....I suffer from depression till now. For the feelings for my uncles wife....but i know we can"t control feelings......I am a Victim of Love , Attraction and Sexual intention....

@BrokenDream Thank you for helping here, BrokenDream.

Thanks guys